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I don't know. I want to break up with her but now that we are engaged there are damn families involved so isn't as easy. So I need space off and then maybe I'll think of this or I have told her I'll...

No she says she didn't tell me because she didn't think of it as a big deal (dont know how she forgot it was a big deal for me) and because it wasn't a kiss but just lips touching whatever the hell...

She wasn't drinking at all that night as she was in charge of all the arrangements with the brides older sister.
And according to her morals it is wrong but the problem here is that she is going...

@ oliver2011 yes this is the girl I was talking of then. In August 2013. I was already with her a few months then. And well I never dated a stripper. Wouldn't be able to take the past anyway. I just...

well but from the photo.. it does look like a proper kiss... and she knew I consider that cheating. SO why do it.. and even if she didn't.. why not say it happened because I considered it cheating...

Kissing is not a big deal just because it is a girl?
And she knew I didn't like her old pictures with this girl then even now after it happened and apparently she didn't even know this girl was...

Hi everyone, back after a long time as all going smooth. I've been with my girlfriend for a year and half now and recently got engaged 3 weeks back to her. But I'll refer to her a girlfriend here as...

We met in person first and then started talking on video chat when I left. Then she keeps coming every few months whenever she has holidays for a few weeks. And will be coming down this December for...

Yeah she didn't pick the time. But she has always refused everyone when they asked her to meet out hangout at that time. Including her best friends. So her going now is what is bugging me.
What I am...

No No.. We do go out with our own friends.
Both of us... when planned with friends.. we do go..
But this yesterday just hurt worse as she kept telling me since the whole week she didn't want to go...

Uhhhm well, that's what she said she was trying to plan when she met this guy other than talking about getting me there. She wanted to plan a surprise visit sometime in the next month and this guy...

I am trying to.. I really love her and she loves me.
I am just too hurt that after a year now of daily talking at 'those hours'.. she just goes out with some guy even though she wasn't completely...

I'm not jealous of him.. even if it was a girl I would be equally pissed that she gave up on our chat time to go meet someone else after a year. When all through the months she would never go even if...

OK I have a weird problem. I don't know if it's jealousy or possessiveness or ego or control issues. But my girlfriend (1 year long distance relationship) would always chat with me every night since...

I don't remember the guys face at all. Just a glimpse because I didn't pay attention to who he was then.
Though it is a guaranteed thing that we won't breakup because of this. I just want to somehow...

Here I am, writing again. Thanks to all the advise here me and my girlfriend are going very smooth and strong at the moment. But a problem on my side came up (as usual).

She is part of this...

Thanks.
That's what I had been doing all day today whenever it bothered me.
It just gets a bit frustrating that she isn't here and I would get to see her only after 3 more months. The skyping bit...

I know I need to deal with it.
But that's exactly what I'm trying to find out.
How do I deal with it. What do I do?
I am trying to let it go and not think of it, but it randomly pops into my...

It was culture.. but I'm trying to get over it.
Random sex and sex with strangers was always looked down upon by my society.
And that's why the fast judging of character . I am trying to get over...

I have come a long way since my past relationships.
And I know people have pasts. I just don't like knowing the details of it.
And here its weird because she said she doesn't like bulky muscular...

Yes I have.
And she said she understands me and won't give details or so henceforth.
But I don't know how to deal with what I know now.
And I don't know if I want to learn dance with her or dance...

This time around I didn't ask for any details..
NOTHING..
I learnt from the previous relationship.
But the girl herself started with details.
And when it didn't add up I asked.
When she...

Confused and mind f**k*d.

Spoke about the past with my girlfriend who I am dating for about 10 months. I'm 25 she is 24. She is perfect in every way now. I know the present and future is...

I just turned 25. I never had any relationships till I was 21. I was too focused on My profession and building it and then now that that was established I startd meeting people , letting loose, and...

I have understood that I am wrong for making her feel bad about it.. I even apologized to her.
But I still need help figuring out where I went wrong. I can understand I'm wrong but when I say I...

Thank you. You haven't been on much help.. Thought this site provides help, but you are just on the bashing spree, rather than anything constructive for me. Thanks again. Cz even if you think I'm...

I didn't bring it up over and over. It started about 12 hours ago. And I stopped talking to her about 10 hours ago because I needed my space and she kept messaging in that time about how she was...

Woah.. that's weird.. thinking of that compared to this.. hahaha. How is it even related or similar? Or is that the point? That its not even remotely related?

Thanks for explaining it that way..
I will try and get over it.. but it is bothering a bit as it was the only place she ever did it.. and she showed me the bedroom and all.. so.. a bit weird and...

hmmm.. the way you frame it now it seems different.. And I asked her not to apologize for it.. ( as the thing has already been done and can't be changed.. ).. I asked her for some space and she kept...

Thanks for your reply. And I completely see the point that the others are making too.. I don't understand where I have wronged her or ruined her self respect. I didn't like that fact she took me to...

Hmmm.. But it wasn't about her past relationship.. If she went there alone I wouldn't have bothered... But taking me to the place where she had her past sex life is what is bugging me as its created...

Thank you for replying me. I know it is stupid of me and its not something worth getting in the way. That is exactly why I need help as these images get in my way. The house is still the way it was....

Hi,

I’m writing here after ages. Broke up with the girl I previously needed help with as she wanted to get married soon and I don’t think I’m settled well enough for marriage so she found some guy...

Well I'm not imagining.. the last time I spoke to her she did tell me she is moving on and dating guys for flings.. doesn't want anything serious with any guy now as she isn't over me, but she has...

I am.. and it is fun.. I'm actually getting compliments from my dance trainers for the speed of progress.. doing.. salsa... cha cha cha.. and jive.. not all that well, but can definitely dance to...

I am trying to improve myself.. ad I still kind of have this feeling that she will look me up after some time.. She still says she loves me but just can't live with me because of my possessiveness....

Yeah I did have the issue of possessiveness.. And I did work on it and get over it. That's why it's a bit irritating and disturbing, That all this while that I was working on our relationship problem...

My girlfriend and I have been together for around 1.5 yrs now.(on and off).. Would fight n breakup for a few weeks and get back.. Except once, we broke up for around 3 months and got back. I went...

Well she doesn't find it a big deal or anything. Its just getting myself to trust other guys touching and holding her and being able to see her hold someone else so sensually other than me.

And...

NO I don't want her to stop dancing altogether.. But yeah, maybe close dancing with other guys I wouldn't like. That bit I'm not yet comfortable with. She loves dancing and can dance as much as she...

Hmmm.. I'll surely keep that in mind always.. thanks so much...

And about the dance paranoia? I still don't think I'm 100% comfortable seeing her close dancing with other men , maybe in time I...

Hmmmmmm... insecurity? I thought insecurity was fearing that your girl will leave you for some other guy..
Hmmmmm...
I don't how to stop thinking about what others think of my girl, who they link...

hmmmm.. thanks so much for that advise.. will surely work on it.. but sounds very tough though...

I thought about it all day, and realised, that this is in fact the biggest issue for me.. about...

We are both 24.
And true, I do get jealous. Not insecure though. But yes, jealous and then possessive.I have been working on this issue.
And its because of the possessiveness that I can't see her...

Actually... I don't get invited to her parties as her friends don't like me (this particular dance was at her best friends party and that female hates me) or other friends don't know me as they are...

Hmmm.. true... I am working on the shutting up bit. Trying to keep things to myself. But then it just kills me inside. How am I supposed to go about getting rid of this thought process that others...

Hmmmm.. but how do I let it go? What do I do? To change this mindset? That's what I don't know how to change and I really wish to change this thinking...

I do plan on apologizing. AS I Know my words weren't right.
But I don't know if I can handle it calmly in future.. As in.. She will continue dancing(thats her life).. I'd never want her to stop....

Hmmmmm.. I just know those guys she danced with.. and she knows well too that they are all players and have used girls as sex objects in the past. And that's why seeing their hands all over my girls...