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I really am interested in her, and what she is all about. So I will wait.

I went on a date with a girl tonight and though I thought everything was going very well we didn't end up kissing @ the end of the night.

The whole time we were laughing and just being very close...

I was @ 114 until she contacted me in September.
Then I was @ 32 when I contacted her.
We had 7 Days of contact (and actually sleeping in the same bed)... then she went into the whole "I want to be...

So I haven't contacted or talked to my ex in months (almost a year of NC), then out of the blue she was texting me, asking me how am I doing, that she missed me, and thought about our relationship a...

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Update: I asked her out to get coffee, she was all for it then backed down @ the last minute. Said she was really tired and had a few errands to run. Though this is the kicker... she said...

So a while as gone by since I have talked, thought about, seen, etc about my ex.

Well last night she texted me and we talked for close to 3 hours. It started as "Hey I hope you are well" and I...

So I have been thinking about my ex lately (dreaming about her every night, seeing little things that reminded me of her) so I decided to break NC and give her a call but she didn't answer but I...

Update on everything.

So nothing has happened, we haven't contacted each other in close to 2 months. I know she is out partying 3-5 nights a week, struggling with her bills while I am training,...

Everyone in this thread are great people. My ex left me because of my depression which was fixed after they gave me the right medication. Now she is the one depressed and I'm trying to be there for...

I didn't understand why my ex chose to be on match.com a couple days after she broke up with me and how she tried to date right after me.

Then I realized from being with her and knowing her past,...

I never knew about Padre Pio before I met her... she said that "she found me through him."
Long story.
See the thing is I don't go searching for her, I mean I'd love to email / call her and ask if...

So Friday I heard from my ex, but it was a quick text that said "Thank U, I am wearing them."

Now this got me confused because I didn't know what she was talking about but I realized something was...

When I first met her she was a wreck. I was what kept her together, and for the first time in her life, (her parents have said this) she was becoming a woman. Everyone (except her 3 friends) say I...

So last night after training @ the Brazilian Jiu Jitsu studio I go to, I decided to stop and get a meal @ subway. When I go to leave I see my ex in her car eating in the parking lot, so I wave say...

SO I was helping my buddy start a profile (because he is single and wants to start dating) and I found a very beautiful girl off there who had an amazing profile. I made a profile this morning @...

needadvice1,
This is the thing, I have been feeling great about myself lately (and for the past month) so I just thought 2 months of not really talking or even seeing each other...

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So we talked today (she initiated it) but brought out the whole "Im still not comfy with talking to you."
Now we aren't talking again. One minute she's texting me non stop, then she's...

I don't know if we could have a friendship with one another. I was planning on proposing in June. If we did it would have to take years you know.
Part of me doesn't know if I should jump the gun...

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About 2 months ago my ex and I split up over the stupidest reasons.
Then a couple weeks ago she sent me an email saying "you proved that I stand corrected."

Well Yesterday her...

BTW I found this song online. Could have something to do with her email.
Eleventeen - I stand corrected
A broken picture frame
Laying at my feet
This once was
A good memory
Now you are gone...

Starbucks,
Though I did think this through, but we have no mutual friends whatsoever. I also live in NJ and she lives in PA. Even though we are 25 minutes apart, we will never see each other or...

Advice to myself...
"ITS A TRAP!"

Don't know, I haven't responded to her, I might give her another week or two. Part of me really wants to call her and just say "Let's have a cup of coffee." The other part of me is saying "Whatever."...

BTW your situation was just like mine a couple years back. I was 25 when it happened, a girl that I knew since college and had a 4 year relationship with her (2 years Long Distance) one day just...

Yeah I thought that but she has way too much pride when it comes to relationships. Even though she can't be alone and needs the love of someone @ all times, if she knows she screwed up, she won't...

Yeah so I assume we were / are in the same boat. I look horrible still (I'm about 150 now) but I'm glad that I can wake up in the morning and not feel like a pile of crap.

Ya know, trust has...

Some guys have their preferences.
I had a blond phase once, didn't date nothing but blondes for years.
Then I had a brunette phase which I'm on right now.
Plus I only seem to date italian girls...

Yeah I mean I couldn't get out of bed for 3 weeks almost after we first broke up. I cried like a baby, it was awesome. I lost close to 30 pounds all together (which I didn't need to lose, I was...

Its funny cause when I did try contacting her in the month of March she blew up on me. So I decided to stick with NC. It's been close to a month since we last talked. Though in the last month I have...

If this is what it means then I guess I am happy on the situation. I didn't want to prove a point to her but I just knew that I wasn't the wrong one in our relationship.

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And this is all it said
"You proved that i stand corrected."

I have no idea what that means.

Anyone know what that means? Or if there is a little meaning to it.

Babe, you need to move on.
There are plenty of guys out there that are probably way better than this guy.

WHy does this sound like a trap, I hope that she's OK, you should let people know where you two will be meeting up. Good luck.

Trust me I loved her more than anything in this world.
I just had a chemical imbalance which they put me on medicine in the month of February and it didn't go over so well with me. I became very...

My ex and I had the same problem but she was the one who had a very low sex drive... also she wasn't very good in bed, but I still loved her with all my heart, it didn't matter. She did have some...

I'd be a little more concerned if they had multiple partners without using a condom. My ex never told me about her past until we were in the middle of our relationship. She had over 30 partners,...

It hurts, she called me again and said "she needs to make some changes but doesn't want me to call her until next year." And if we are meant to be together then we will be.

I'm utterly confused...

You know you sit here and you think to yourself "Yeah I did hurt her but it was the medicines fault." Maybe she would understand and I'm trying to make up for it, to show her love, respect and...

My ex just called me... it was horrible, she flipped out on me saying "stop emailing me" (it was 1 email) and "No I'm not ing ok." She yelled @ me for an entire minute while I kept my cool. She...

It's OK to be brash, if you weren't I would know you weren't telling me the truth. Everyone has their opinions about her, I'm the only one that puts her on a pedestal.

I've had 3 long...

Now you just made me get tears in my eyes.
Everyone has told me the same thing as you "if she's not going to respond to your email, you need just to drop her. You are so much better than that."
...

Karen,
You are welcome for the advice. I appreciate that I could and can help you. You seem like a great person with just an imbalance. A simple road block which you can find a detour around.
...

Also try this, it's something I'm going to start saying if I have another episode with my ex (if we ever get back together) or if I ever fall in love again.

When you have an episode before you two...

Karen,
Actually all I had was a simple chemical imbalance, though the medication they prescribed me actually made me have BPD symptoms.

Honestly once I got off the medication and started taking...

Karen,
I'm so sorry for what you are going through. I was in somewhat a similar situation as you to where my ex left me.
Getting better doesn't happen overnight but be confident and tell...

It wasn't even that bad, I had a negative reaction on the medicine my doctor gave me originally, I did have some major mood swings but never once put her down, or laid a hand on her, I would just...

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So recently my ex and I broke things off because of my chemical imbalance, the medication I was taking gave me horrible side effects and she couldn't handle it anymore. She told me...

And then a new beginning.

That's why I don't understand the no contact method.
How are you fighting for something if you aren't contacting them whatsoever?
I'm going on my 4th week of no contact (I sent flowers during the...

Maybe you should go to your primary doctor and get put on some form of medication.

I didn't eat for close to two weeks (if I could post a picture you would be shocked.)

I went to my doctor...