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    It does not sound so good. If he is into you, he...

    It does not sound so good. If he is into you, he will not pick up a fight for minor stuff and break up. He seems tired of you, and playing around with your emotion.
    Do not take him seriously if you...
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    You already know she will not be with you...

    You already know she will not be with you anymore. If you still keep the false hope, try to see, you will need to pretend you do not feel any pain. It will toorture you more.
    The best way is NC,...
  3. Self image is very important to determine out...

    Self image is very important to determine out happiness level. Nobody is perfect, but we need to be comfortable about out own body. Otherwise, it will make us miserable.

    My concern is if you loose...
  4. Thatcoolguy, Of course she has feeling for you....

    Thatcoolguy,
    Of course she has feeling for you. But listen. You met her when she was 15. Realistically, do you believe she will be only with you for the rest of her life? Do you want to be with her...
  5. Question: Ex boyfriend

    by winding200
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    The chances are you will be hurt again just like...

    The chances are you will be hurt again just like before if you open the communication channel for his benefit. He needs someone he can talk to over his girlfriend issue, and he will play with your...
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    Hi dreaming, It does not matter it was a rebound...

    Hi dreaming,
    It does not matter it was a rebound or not. He does not care for you at all, it means he was not in love with you as you thought to be. Why do you care for someone disrespect you and...
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    To make better understanding, let me ask you some...

    To make better understanding, let me ask you some questions. Is he avoiding you in any forms of physical contact? Is he still cuddling? How old is he? Your relationship is only for 2 years old even...
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    You are in emotional roller coaster between child...

    You are in emotional roller coaster between child custody and break up in a foreign country. You will need strong nerve. As you know, you will be getting better as time goes by. I always stick with...
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    You still love him, like the marriage happen, but...

    You still love him, like the marriage happen, but you know you have issues on your behavior. He has feeling for you, but he is still hurt, and concerned about your behavior. I do not think NC will...
  10. It sounds very clear that he is done with you for...

    It sounds very clear that he is done with you for some reason. You need to move on, and leave him alone. Why do you want to be with someone who does not appreciate you? You had good 9 month with him,...
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    JustforGuy, The relationship has been broken off...

    JustforGuy,
    The relationship has been broken off for month, you are still in denial, but you need to accept it and move on. It is hard to accept the fact after 5 years of dedication, and you still...
  12. You have been cheated by her, and she left you to...

    You have been cheated by her, and she left you to sleep with someone else. What you had was not a working relationship or true love.
    Why do you care for the liar, and want to be with the liar...
  13. Question: Break Up

    by winding200
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    K22X, The good working relationship is not a...

    K22X,
    The good working relationship is not a form of 'on and off'. The good relationship is solid, and getting deeper as time goes by. It clearly says that you have gone through roller coaster...
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    Greenhaven, He did not love you as much you...

    Greenhaven,
    He did not love you as much you assume, and he broke up with you to see another girl. Stop letting him to hurt you. You are a nice person who made the break up amicable, but he does not...
  15. Do you remember the feeling when you fall for...

    Do you remember the feeling when you fall for love? You are amazed by the person, constantly think about the person, and admire his/her every single movement & talk. This admiration is the fuel of...
  16. Question: Now what?

    by winding200
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    Walking away is the easiest way to deal with the...

    Walking away is the easiest way to deal with the broken relationship to protect self.
    Sticking with NC is hard, because it requires patience and persistency. You have done it successfully, and you...
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    You Cleary know what kind of person she is. You...

    You Cleary know what kind of person she is. You said she is shallow. Why do you want to be a friend of the shallow person and get hurt?? Please move on, and spend your time and energy for someone...
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    We only live once, and our life is precious. I...

    We only live once, and our life is precious. I would not waste my life for someone who has no intention or rush to marry after 3 years.

    Common rule. All the love has life span. It starts with...
  19. You are right, Rebound relationship only destroy...

    You are right, Rebound relationship only destroy your healing process, and make you shallow. Take some alone time, and heal from the toxic relationship. Do not fill your void with another warm...
  20. Question: Now what?

    by winding200
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    Hi pslayne, I am back from my trip last night....

    Hi pslayne,
    I am back from my trip last night. How are you doing? I hope you are doing well. Any progress? I know you are hurt, and unsure about her.

    I see many members are suggesting you to...
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    I agree, I am in the area too, it is prevalent...

    I agree, I am in the area too, it is prevalent phenomenon that people take sex very light, going to the point (?) without developing relationship or courtship. This is not the right way to find the...
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    I deleted them all, blocke their emails as spam...

    I deleted them all, blocke their emails as spam mail. It really helped me to move on.
  23. You had enough dramas already, learned enough...

    You had enough dramas already, learned enough lessons, and it is time for you to move on. You did the right thing, and do not update your ex with your new number to start over the drama again. It is...
  24. Question: Now what?

    by winding200
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    pslayne2233, You are right. It is all her fault,...

    pslayne2233,
    You are right. It is all her fault, she created all the disasters, humiliated you, destroyed the wedding plans and future. Yes, she has to come out as responsible person, apologize, fix...
  25. Question: Now what?

    by winding200
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    Pslyne2233, Sorry for late response. I have been...

    Pslyne2233,
    Sorry for late response. I have been out of country for a while for vacation.

    To answer your question, I will not play a game just like she did. The whole wedding plan was destroyed...
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    Why? There are many reasons I can think of...

    Why? There are many reasons I can think of without making her gold digger. I guess she wanted to lay out all the future plans (long term & short term) in detail with him. Nothing is wrong to make a...
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    Yes, in my best knowledge, it will be really...

    Yes, in my best knowledge, it will be really helpful to hear the truth from outsider for him. Women are not after men's money. Women are equally motivated, work hard to be financially independent. If...
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    I would not even attampt to take a 2 weeks...

    I would not even attampt to take a 2 weeks vacation without my husband at the first place. I love him, want to be with him, and cannot leave him home alone for 2 weeks! I will ask him to join us for...
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    Water_fire, Do you know you are creepy? If you...

    Water_fire,
    Do you know you are creepy? If you can not share the simple number after 1 & half yrs of committed relationship, what can you possibly share with her in future? Your girlfriend has...
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    I do not see any issues you guys have in the...

    I do not see any issues you guys have in the post, and I am pretty sure she will show up. Give her a big hug & kiss, and appologized you were too busy, and could not give her all the attention she...
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    Jmjoshep, I agree people change jobs, but it...

    Jmjoshep,
    I agree people change jobs, but it requires determination and efforts. If it is about the job change from farming to fishing, it would not be a problem, but this is about stripping. This...
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    I disagree. PEOPLE DO NOT CHANGE. The big...

    I disagree.
    PEOPLE DO NOT CHANGE.
    The big mistake people make in relationship is they try to change their partners for some reason. There is old phrase. 'do not make your partner as A project.' It...
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    I feel sorry for you. No matter what to do with...

    I feel sorry for you.
    No matter what to do with your marriage, you better be financially capable to support you and your daughter. When you are completely dependable, you do not have any control for...
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    Let’s talk about attachment again. When you start...

    Let’s talk about attachment again. When you start to see the girl, you probably felt you hit the jackpot. The sexist girl in an adult club chose you boyfriend, and you could have her every night by...
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    My fiancés? Do you have multiple finace? I guess...

    My fiancés? Do you have multiple finace? I guess it is typo.
    Do you really want to marry this girl, and make her as 'respectable' mother of your children? Do you really think she will settle down...
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    It is no brainer. It will not work no matter what...

    It is no brainer. It will not work no matter what you do.
    She loves to strip, which give her excitement under spotlight, boost her sexy body image, heated tension from gorup of guys, and of course...
  37. Question: Now what?

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    Pslayne1234, I guess you are hurt by the fact....

    Pslayne1234,
    I guess you are hurt by the fact. Yes, it is classic girly power game, and this is what I expected. She chose not to apologize you, but to push you harder to drive you nuts....
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    There are some countries (India, Pakistan, some...

    There are some countries (India, Pakistan, some middle eastern courtiers) still practice 'arranged marriage' because poverty is prevalent, and people have to survive in the extended family form....
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    Lisa27, You are still confused, and not getting...

    Lisa27,
    You are still confused, and not getting at all. How can you possibly love someone who hit you multiple times already and will hit you continuously? Are you brain damaged?? (I am really...
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    I am glad you made a right movement! Please...

    I am glad you made a right movement!

    Please stop the text message game. It is just useless and childish, and only irritate you emotionally. No matter what wonderful text messages you guys...
  41. I do not understand you at all. You fall for...

    I do not understand you at all.
    You fall for married men or making a baby with a single guy without marriage. What is wrong with you really? You have no self-esteem, ground rules, or basic...
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    Oh, boy. You have no ground rules. You are seeing...

    Oh, boy. You have no ground rules. You are seeing a wrong guy. Are you OK to see a guy who is still married, call him boyfriend, and ask a gift and rejected? How low can you go further from here? Do...
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    You made a huge mistake to sleep with a guy who...

    You made a huge mistake to sleep with a guy who has girlfriend. Please don't do it again. You helped him to cheat his girlfriend. You will be cheated if you become his girlfriend too. Please do not...
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    WAKE UP! Do you call a man who hits you as best...

    WAKE UP!
    Do you call a man who hits you as best friend?? A friend never hurts friends.
    You are VERY CONFUSED, because you are lonely & have not eaten & slept enough lately.
    Run fast from this...
  45. You seem very angry. It is nobody's fault you are...

    You seem very angry. It is nobody's fault you are not tall, or she casually look other people. What do you want? Do you want to stretch yourself to 5'11" or blind her? Get over it, and focus on your...
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    ?? According to another post merged, he is...

    ??
    According to another post merged, he is actually gown up, even has kids, but extremely uncomfortable when you hug and cheek kiss with other people in front of him?
    He acted like a 8 years old...
  47. Kylaa, It will be hard to accept the fact, but...

    Kylaa,
    It will be hard to accept the fact, but he never loved you, but used you to fill the gap. You are not a doormat, but a lady. You have been alone more than 3 month now, and the hardest time is...
  48. Gee, it is horrible to hear actually. I cannot...

    Gee, it is horrible to hear actually. I cannot believe she COULD say the rude word to you, the dedicated husband & father of her kids. She should think twice before she told you. She much slip or...
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    Well, it seems you took it too easy. Long in...

    Well, it seems you took it too easy. Long in short, you made a mistake.
    It is not appropriate to ask a laptop for birth day gift in 2 month relationship. He is not your parents, but new boyfriend...
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    Well, She broke up with her ex 3 month prior to...

    Well,
    She broke up with her ex 3 month prior to meet you, and she has been with you about a year, and it has been great. You said you guys had silly arguments. Why do you think she is hunted by ex...
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