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The name to your story is needlessly Looooong.

If there were ever a good example to marital counselling, I think it would be you and your wife. Because you seem to get caught up in the drama...

Acceptance Coffeeluver,

If you accept your own words to him, great. But I don't suspect you do. i.e. : "I know in my head what I need to do, so why can't I just do it?!?" What I would love you...

I don't think that you are out of line by questioning your wife's friendship with the married male. I may be wrong, but I don't get the impression that she has been cheating with him... if she were,...

Hey Survivor,

It's a very good thing to be planning your ninth grade in advance, very good. However, you are still in 8th grade and need to try to get out of your comfort zone now so that your...

I agree with Mudweiser... you have to keep his comments in context of the situation and his 'single un-parenting' situation. If his comments would be interpreted as hurtful by your daughter, then...

If you choose your times well no less than 30 minutes after a poop, for the next hour and a half or more then you aren't spearing any plums or making any mess.


Oh boy, if this doesn't just turn...

Hey Messed Up Chick,

I'm not here to diminish your sexuality... but you're not as messed up as you think you are. I have quite a few sexual fantasies (emphasis on fantasies) that are weird and I...

Deebee,

This is good... very very good. Let her work out some of her own issues with a couseller/therapist alone to begin with. She'll be more able to open up and honestly explore her feelings. ...

Cody, my hat's off to you.

After reading your response, I don't get any feeling that you're not in this for any greater reason than the two boy's well-being. So, stay strong. Your efforts are...

If you haven't been through a custody dispute, don't think you know what your talking about.
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You are absolutely right... I'm not sure...

Hello Gres123,

Can I just say that blood relatives don't always have your best interests at heart. Your mom does love you, but seems to be incapable of showing this, nor keeping her own self...

Breathe... in... out... in... out...

Now, if you can try to calm yourself for a bit... can you take a little time to research anxiety and what YOU can do about it? I get the feeling that you...

Hey Survivorboi,

Your user-name is testament in itself that you're going to be more than just OK. Asking for suggestions is a good first step as you realize you're not achieving in life what you...

Wow, Holly... it's not that I don't understand what you're saying, but I guess I wonder 'what's in it for you?' (yes, totally stolen from Dr. Phil). Changing your thought process is hard work and...

I feel so sorry for you (as a mom)... why did they give custody to your husband? Tell us why they would take them away from you. You say he was abusive towards you? How, emotionally, physically?
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Jake, I like (even love) what you are saying here.

Cody, I've come to my own sometimes painful realization that even though we call other's 'family' and expect that within this
Haven of...

[QUOTE=Synnen;2097248]Oh for heaven's sake.

Well, that about summed it up for me Synnen, haha. So many assumptions going on here. You say it like it is. Nice work.

Absolutely NOT a waste! You only have to look into your children's eye's to see that! Everything happens for a reason, hun, you don't have to understand why.

Keep in mind that 'broken' is on her way to being fixed. Don't lose that thought hun, you're worth it.

It's hard not to be distracted by the religious remarks concerning the position of God not liking divorce and all... OK, that's cool for you, but hard for another to take as good advice unless they...

No, hun, you're not crazy. But Why are you putting up with this kind of behaviour? Would your mother think this is OK? Probably not, so grow to learn that your partner will only do the cr*p he...

I agree with Fr Chuck...

Haha... had to stop reading the last post after the 'leaning towards him being gay' remark. You don't know these people based on a short question posted on the internet. Ridiculous.

Anyhow,...

In above post, I wrote a bad word and it was erased... my apologies... it's meant to read 'this is a really long b*tch-fest' No insult meant to offend women or female dogs

Ok... I tried to read every response before I am replying, but have to admit it's a little long to stay focused.

I'm going to go against many of the other responders by saying it sounds like this...

Awesome answer Jake, very paitent and non-judgemental... Sweet... I hope you can read something into this response. You can be happy, if you chose to be. My best, BigBlack.

Well, you can 'google' sex addiction and get a questionnaire you can fill out if you want. You can analyze what that means according to other people... and fail... and fail... but the point is......

Perhaps you guys could find a better way to communicate rather than punish each other with the 'no sex' punishment. Sounds like you wanted to teach him a lesson and now you're both suffering and...

From a woman who has already gone through losing everything from her first marriage and getting on in years... I think it's very prudent and reasonable for the OP to be taking care of her financial...

Stop being a flake and make up your flippin mind. I mean that in all sincerity. You could choose to be with your husband and be financially secure and love your life/mate... or you could choose to...