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So I went to this restaurant recently, on sort of a night out with my Mom... Just fun because she had a gift certificate to this place that was supposed to be pretty tasty so, we...

She's afraid of intimacy. There's nothing you can do but walk away. I wish you the best. If you push, she'll hate you for it. <shrug> Life is tough!

It's over, buddy. Move on. The only thing you need to tell yourself is that time does, in fact, heal all wounds... It also changes the face of things QUITE signifcantly. I know it's not fun to...

My dad is bald as an egg - in fact, he's got a bit of a penis head going if you know what I mean. He's dating a younger woman with a smoking body and killer mind. You look at the two of them and...

This could well be true, though the people close to me tell me otherwise... Though, on the other hand, I've made this particularly self-serving thread. So where's the evidence?

I don't think I'm...

I like that advice, be everyone's best friend... Of course, in my view, friendship means checking in to talk every so often, but sometimes it seems like sometimes women find this to be a little...

That's the thing... You can't 'get' her back. She can only choose to come back. The sooner your accept that the better off you'll be. By pressing the matter, you're only going to push her away. ...

Your best bet is to move on. If she wants you, she can find you. Otherwise, you're just messed about. Afraid of getting older at age 18? What, does she think this is the dark ages?

Perhaps I'm being childish, but this whole relationship thing has suddenly struck me as requiring entirely too much effort. All the lies, all the games... And the worst of all, the cold shoulder,...

There's lots of reasons to dump someone. The big problem is, in most cases, a dumper won't say a damn thing about what that reason is. All they do is disappear or spread lies and confusion. I...

Nothing to get. Cut her the hell out of your life. If she cared she wouldn't text - she'd actually give you something.

Honestly, just from all this, I'm starting to dislike this girl. Lord...

Like's been said above... There's no 'finding' the right guy. You have to get to know someone before you can tell one way or there other. Just, for the love of god, don't play any of the stupid...

Don't know how else to say this... Did you have sex with him? If you did, you got used. No reason to feel bad about it... This happens to many people. There are simply a large number of human...

Getting cold feet is no reason to end a relationship... Be sure to look at the whole situation before making your decision whole sale.

There's nothing you can do except for walk away, and fast. The less you talk to her the better.

Honestly, my friend, like I said before... in all likelihood she just doesn't care at all. Sorry. That's the way life is sometimes, especially when it comes to young women. You'll get used to it....

As they say, her interest level has in you dropped in quite significantly my friend... You're a tool to her. I don't know how else to say it.

Move on. You don't need to talk to her. She won't...

Do you masturbate at all? Have you ever done so in front of him? These are the sort of things that are VERY helpful for a man who isn't, shall we say, naturally inclined to the physical experience.

Have you mentioned to her how you think her actions don't make any sense? Honestly, it sounds like she's trying to paint as a bad guy so she won't feel bad when she makes off with another fella... ...

What the hell, he's 57 and he sounds like twenty-five year old.

<shrug> If you're so mature, why fly off the handle just because someone questions your quite questionable choices? No one said you were wrong... But marriage is a big step, especially to a man in...

There's nothing you can do... Just live life. I'd advise not talking to her as that will make you confused, probably more so than her... In fact, she probably knows what she wants more than you...

What's the deal? You're being a little vague.

I think that's the opposite of cynical, Geoff.

So you've never met anyone who meant more than two weeks to you? How old are you? Have you ever been the one who was dumped?

Sounds like you've been hurt and are afraid of taking a chance again... There is such a thing as too fast but getting together and enjoying spending time with someone you like is hardly something to...

Any number of things could happen here... This is a transitional period and that's all right. But please... PLEASE... Respect your fiancé enough to voice your concerns to him. It is possible that...

Just treat your fiancé with respect... He deserves it. Whatever you do, don't take the coward's way out and DO take responsibility for ALL your actions. That means understanding that what you're...

Have you ever just out and out asked her what the deal is? SOunds like she's dealing with a lot of guilt over something. For yourself, I would meet with her and corner her on this issue. That...

She broke your heart and showed no remorse, my friend... No one expects you to ever get over it... Just to accept it and move on.

Now another issue is, are you feeling this way because there's a lot of hot foreign tail around to distract you? This happens to many people - they go over seas, meet a lot of attractive men or...

You're so silly. Just do what your guts tell you - it's been four months, the only mixed message he could be getting would be from your reluctance. Say "Let's get together on THIS day in THIS place...

You had the balls to get yourself into this... YOu can get yourself out of it. Hopefully you can be a man about it. Use a very simple rule - are you doing something you'd be ashamed to talk about...

The truth is that this shouldn't be about him but about yourself... Consider this a wakeup call. Do you see that addiction has cost you something valuable, something you may never get back? What...

Never doubt the value of your experiences, my friend. You may think that you've lost out in terms of grades, whatnot, but these things are ultimately transitory. What you have gained here will...

How come people are such babies about this whole 'space' thing? What the hell are they doing else in their life that's so important that they 'absolutely' need space, or you're a prick for not...

You know, I've been thinking... This whol asking for space thing... Is it basically just asking for the other person to screw up and then allow for the one, the dumper, to more or less do as their...

Yes, I am using type... That's why I used the words 'theme' and 'trend' in my statement... You'll also notice my wording otherwise is very general... But honestly, to think that there aren't...

I think a lot of the advice in this thread is extreme, particularly from JS and tal (you crotchety old man, you!)... However, speaking from experience, you should only worry about what you see in...

I've noticed this as a recurring theme... Guy goes out with girl... Guy and girl have great time together... Guy and girl spend lots of time together (who decides this, doesn't matter)... Girl...

I've done the same thing MANY times... It doesn't really serve a purpose except for to hold you back. You can do many other things with your time, I'm guessing.

Yet it's not something you can...

Have you eve considered perhaps address him with your issues and attempting to work your way through them? Is the real issue that he is completel unsatisfactory in bed and you would really like to...

Consider me another guy who attempted to stay friends with his ex only to have her turn it down... Admittedly, it's not like I was the best of friends for a while there... but then, what does one...

Honestly, my friend, by the time they're ready to come back in all likelihood you won't want them back...

That doesn't mean you can't be friends, though!

Speaking as a guy who was in a situation quite as hopeless as yours (thought not equivalent), I can tell you right now that NC makes a difference... The times when I would go to sleep thinking about...

She hasn't once attempted to reach out to you? I suppose that's for the best but still seems very cold...

I can only state that though I haven't necessarily agreed with everything that WildCat has had to say it is my experience that every prediction, analysis and hypothesis he has made has been dead-on...

I'll throw my chit in with Skell's... I know I believed I knew what was best, back when it was happening to me... I kept reaching out, telling her I loved her. Basically it felt like I got crapped...

I suppose the real question is, why do you feel you have the right to enter his life after breaking his heart? Especially if you have no interest in rekindling your love interest...

I think contacting him would be an okay idea... But don't do it in the hopes of getting him back... Just keep an open mind. Let what happens, happen.