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I've never been kissed until 18 years old, it's normal.

Patience is what you need right now. There is no reason to rush things and you should probably let him take his time. He seems like a nice guy so go slow in the relationship.

Answer her and end the message "I hope you will have a nice life" or something like that. She'll understand. Honestly it isn't worth it to be friends with ex, especially since there is many people...

That's nice! I almost got into a year being single, I guess you guys beat me :(.

I loved that story! I think you're doing great yourself and it's a perfect example for other people. Keep it up!

What is really the point of this? Giving hope to people so that they can move on? Usually when you break up or the ex break's up, there's only one thing to do: No Contact and move on without looking...

It's really tough and really painful. I got a similar story so I know how hard it will gets. What I did, as hard as it was I just applied NC and went on with my life. I didn't want a cheater in mine...

She probably wants to see how "bad" you are doing, it's an ego thing.

Here's an answer:
"The best apology you can do to me is to not contact me anymore. I call what you are doing stalking. Have...

I guess a little update is needed right now.
I've been really busy with school and life has been good to me. I feel like everything went back to normal. I'm with a girl now, though I'm not sure if I...

It's been a while since I've been here, but NC is the only thing you should apply right now. We know you're hurt (that's why we were here initially) and we all agreed that NC is the only thing that...

Time and NC is what it takes so that the sting go away. Make your own life interesting and enjoyable and you should be fine soon.

You have too much expectations. It's not bad to have some, but having too much will just eat you alive. You need to have a balance life between letting go and having expectations.

You also cannot...

I like! As long as it is clear. Even if you are interested in her, take things slow, very slow. You need to heal first.

Your ex is a perfect example why rebound doesn't work. Ex's do what they...

Your life shouldn't get flipped when you met someone... It looks like a rebound, make sure to take your time.

NO, no no and no. You need to keep NC and take care of yourself. It is excruciating hard but NC is the only way.

It is just too typical of all relationship problem in this site. If you read...

You probably must be hurt though you're not showing it. NC is a good idea and you should really stick to it. Don't rush though into a new relationship, but dating is OK. The thing is she is leaving...

Hand in there emopunk, you're doing great. Yea you're right guys, good old NC is forever. I don't feel too bad though, I just have so many things to do and think about that I almost forgot the phone...

Yea... breaking NC is not a good thing. I just called my ex just to see what's up... and we talked for an hour or so. I don't feel too great, but it's not a major setback. I guess people do change...

So true. Same thing happened to me and I think it is more than normal to have residual feelings. As long as it doesn't (or very little) affect you, life goes on. The only advice I can give you is to...

Since you are so lost, staying single is a good idea for you. You can stay sane by just letting go. If you let go of all your expectations you will find peace.

I can put in another way. Did you...

One thing I'm sure is that I will never go back with her, and she has a boyfriend. Do I need to be friends with her? That's a good question. I was more thinking of increasing my social circle and we...

I haven't been on this thread for a long time but I always return because I can learn a lot from you. It's nothing personal, but you did a lot of mistakes and people learn from it.

You think too...

It's been a while here so I guess a little update is necessary.
Today was my ex birthday and her best friend invited me (it was actually 3 birthdays that were celebrated at once). My best friend...

The path you are taking is extremely hard and painful, but there is light in the end of the tunnel, remember that.

What you do need to do is to break the cycle of sadness by trying. You need to...

Tal is right, it does seem a pattern. What I am wondering is, why do you want to start a new relationship so fast? You have been in a very long relationship, you NEED your time alone for your own...

Well I feel "anger" from time to time because I still believe my ex didn't understand the full extent of what she has done.

My best revenge is to live my life fully without them. Go back to NC...

Well I guess I have 30 minutes before I go to sleep so I could give it a shot.

Let's think this rationally, you both don't want the same thing, so you decided to end this now, before it got worst....

Remember that looking at her picture is like setting the whole NC back to 0. With full NC it should take you less time.

Happy birthday fellow canadian!

It is a new year, so make the best of it!

Your state is really small. Go to Brooklyn, meet new people it's usually much fun also.

Nice for you! Hope you do get even better.

Nice for you! Keep it up!

Like Tal said, NC. Hope it's only a fallback and that you'll get back to healing.

I think that's one major part of the problem. You are lost, confused and in shock. First of all, she went and give a blow*** to another guy, and she wants to have sex with him AND she expects YOU to...

I got 1 "failed" relationship. The reason I use quotations is because it brought me tremendous experience and I'm overly happy for what I received.

I think this isn't your first or your last...

Nothing changed in your situation except 2 weeks give or take. Reread the advice we gave you, they still apply and don't repeat the same mistakes.

It's really good you're keeping NC. She has her life and you have yours, that's as far as it goes. Yes it isn't hard for a girl to find a guy for a rebound, but I guess it's hard to find a valuable...

Actually it's really great that you are taking care of yourself and passing exams. It takes time to get better, but you do get better. Read articles on Google they help a lot (write break up in...

Here's what's going to happen (not what you should do):
You're going to give yourself hope and you're going to stay "friends" with her. You're going to try every trick in the book. You're going to...

Completely wrong. This is called a rebound and it hurts you and the new person. You don't heal properly and you are just trying to hide the pain.

We only give our honest opinion here and what we feel is right from our own experience. You should probably leave her as if she liked you really she would have gone for you. You are just something on...

There is always a possibility to get out of your situation. Why does the bank need a co-signer? In that case ask for your mom or a friend of yours or even a teacher, it's not hard to ask for help....

Of course you can, by law you must be able. You can go to the doctor and tell him you don't feel well and he'll give you a note, like this you can defer your exam.
Is the student loan from the...

I live in canada so I know the services that the government offers:
1. First go talk to your student advisor and explain your situation
2. All canadian universities have the H1N1 self-reporting...

The fact that you can't find a place to stay is due to lack of money or lack of space?

8 years is a long time but life continues. If you reread your posts, you will see you need to calm down and take care of yourself first and foremost. We're here to give you advice and you do need to...

Yes, as redhead said, you need to be proactive. I am sure there is a plan you can make to get your life back on track. This is the time where you need to get control of your life and decide what you...

Everybody has a way of having fun. I know back in canada you get one or three people doing it, but it's way too cold for that.

As normal as these thoughts are, give it time and heal actively. There is no fast remedy against break up depending on how active you are to healing and if you apply NC or not.