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Things were going pretty well until the breaking of NC last week (she contacted me). It has been a week now since we went NC again. I have a friend that was bar tending at a party on Friday night. ...

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Two nights ago, I went to a Christmas event with a group of friends and a girl that I have gone on a few dates with in the last month. As a joke, I posted a picture of a Christmas tree from...

Correct... I meant that if she wants to contact you to reconcile, etc. she knows how to get in touch with you. Contacting you just to see how you are doing is her way of keeping you near her, but...

Wow, reading your story is almost like reading my own. Very similar situation. After a few weeks, I decided to unfriend her from FB. I'm glad I did it, but like you, I'm still friends with some of...

I guess I need to clarify that I haven't taken them to lunch, etc. since the breakup. Her daughter was upset one night saying that she missed me. My ex actually asked the daughter if it would help...

Jake and Tal, thanks for the answers. I wish I could stop torturing myself with this. The last time we spoke, she was crying and saying that there are times when she wants to just break down and...

It's been a little over a month since the breakup. At first, we would talk once a week or so, but I haven't talked to her in almost 2 weeks. It's hard. I found out through the grapevine that she...

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I thought things were getting easier. I actually broke NC and stopped by her house for about 20 minutes to see her 14 y.o. daughter because her daughter has been really sad and...

Update: I haven't talked to her since 10/30, which is 10 days ago when I went to her house to pick up my stuff. Her kids were there and she went to her 14 y.o. daughters room to tell her I was...

I agree with talaniman. My ex girlfriend did some similar things with texting and emailing other guys and I can finally see the light now. It is very hard to grasp that the person you love and want...

I can totally relate to your issue. My girlfriend and I just ended a 3.5 year relationship and I find myself checking her profile a few times everyday. I tell myself not to do it and nothing good...

I wanted to add something that is helping me get through this. There is an awesome song out right now by Sara Evans called "A Little Bit Stronger". It is about someone going through a break up and...

I've read all of the stickies and I still have a few questions.
1. Is it wise to ask a girl out within the next week or two? I have a few possibilities, but as I said earlier, I know I'm not...

I can totally relate. I'm going through the same thing right now. It hurts, it sucks, it's confusing. You ask yourself why over and over and how are you supposed to NOT talk to someone that you...

What are your suggestions regarding moving on? I don't have a lot of friends in this town that weren't "couples friends". I'm not opposed to going out on dates right now, but I don't think I'm...

So we met face to face today. I asked her what her interpretation of our relationship status is right now... on break, broken up, still together, etc. She said that she sees us as still together,...

I can totally relate to your issues. I went through the same thing with my girlfriend messaging another guy that lived in another state. When I confronted her on it, she said that it was all...

I'm dying to contact her to get everything off my chest. I haven't been able to sleep well for the last week. As I said earlier, she is still out of town until tomorrow night (I think). I want to...

I'm pretty sure she will be back in town on Sunday (it all depends on how her team does). Should I call her or text her that I want to talk to her? Do I try to do it so that it happens quickly, as...

You are correct about the timing. She was married when we first met. We met through mutual friends and she contacted me first. I was hesitant to get involved with someone who is married... I know...

It has always been an issue with me how many times she and her ex talk daily. I think that neither one of them ever truly dealt with their divorce. They both admitted that they grew apart and were...

I've been dating this girl for over 3.5 years. She was married when we first met, then separated then divorced. We have practically lived as though we were married for the last 2.5 years (vacations...