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Sometimes I hate you guys... but I know your right dammit...

Hey guys... been some time! Just seeing how everyone is doing~ I for one have gotten better but I still think of her from time to time and I wonder if she ever thinks of me. I always wonder if I...

+1 to tal... he knows best ~
"Take time for yourself without him, to let your emotional dust settle, and get over the initial shock of the break up. ( sucks we ALL know) and be prepared to find,...

You already know the answer to this. Your mind has it right and your heart is playing tricks with you. It is best to go to NC and live your life. A relationship is about going through life together...

I'm with Paxe on this one... my story doesn't even come near this one... Trust me.. even if you got her back your going to be living parnoia and stress and you name it crap. The trust has been...

I agree with that... I dun know.. I just feel some of the pple I meet... I can't figure if I like them or just trying to fill a void or am I thinking too much. Should you ever be friends with your...

Took the words right from my mind... I was hoping you had a solution rather then joining me on this issue lol

Yeah I've been doing that... how did you deal with that thought of moving on and meeting someone else. I mean is it just time or just like someone else and just went with it. I mean I meet new pple...

Yeah.. its this damn holiday seasoning... just feel like I'm going to be forgotten... just sucks

Yeah I'm not going to do it... thank guys

I'm really confused on that... I actually don't know how I'm going to react. I pretty much know she isn't coming back but I feel it be nice. But then again I did tell her we wouldn't talk again so I...

This thread help me allot.. make allot sense.. now I need to tell the brain to listen

That's good ~ these season time are rough... would you guys even mail a merry Christmas card or probably not.

Hey guys been a few days... been better! I hope everyone is good! How's everyone holding up?

I know..

I did... I really hate it... god I don't know how pple get over these feeling and thought sometimes... I know there light at the end of the tunnel.. just feel like its never coming..

Ugh... why do I look at her sn.. such a dumb move... damn you aim! Need to be stronger and have more will power

Very true... naw I never reach out... even though I want to every minute of the day... damn you stupid mind!! Someone posted early that the mind and the body are two different things and you really...

Yeah I did the same thing.. I said.. don't contact me unless you want to get back together and we'll most likely never speak again... man... why I have to be so cold now I think I'm the one suffer...

Really? How long did that take for that to happen?

I dun know... I honestly think she really attractive. But your right we need to take her off the pedestal and build our self confidence back up. Yeah my confidence is shot and I def. unsure about...

hey bjohnrupp.. yeah dun get me wrong I got blown off by like 8103 girls and kind of annoyed me but in my mind I was like what do I have to lose. Yeah the loneliness def sunk in worst right when I...

I went out to the bars this past sat and I met these twin girls and its really interesting talking to them and I kind of forgot everything that was bearing down on me. But then when I walk out of...

You guys are awesome seriously... every time I want to look back you guys just keep pointing me forward. Thank you guys

That was great advice thank u emo... seriously that makes allot of sense...

What do you do when you worry about your ex.. esp if its snowing out... do you say anything? Or just keep quiet

Yeah, I figured that out a few weeks ago... It solves nothing but waste gas and makes me feel even more like . I want this to all go away... I hate it... ugh been feeling lonely lately sucks.

Amd why do I have urge drive over to her house to see if she even home... I don't understand that... I know if I go there and she home... then nothing happens and if she not there ill feel even more...

yeah I've heard that... ugh... I just struggle so much. I just woke from a dream and it felt so real... How do people handle these dreams... It just feel awful inside. =(

Thank you... I'm started to calm down again. T_T what a scary feeling.

I'm so confused, I've been in NC for about a month and I slipped up recently and a friend came by and ask me if I was going to a friend birthday party and then she was like oh nvm... u probably...

just need to vent... ugh... I'm struggling so much =*( I miss her so much and I hate where we are and I hate how my life is now...

You need to just take any kind of food and just shove it down. I mean anything... Give yourself a chance... its only day 2... time going to feel like an eternity but go do something that will take...

I think you handle the situation well. ~

All it is... is words... it doesn't change anything... I'm going through a breakup now and I been in NC for a month and I slip up a few days ago and trust me, every time u slip up.. you fall back in...

Yeah I'm going to do it~ going to try my best =)

dnaakrs is on the right track... if she thinking the same thing as you. Trust me she'll find a way to get a hold of you. You tried and that's more then enough that you need to give of yourself. I...

Thanks 88 sunflower. Honestly when I read other pple post and I think man these pple are getting trampled on by there so "loved ones" and then I look at mine and I realize I'm one of them too!

I...

hey epark seem like you and I are on the same timeline with the breakup. Seriously NC is the way to go... the pain u feel when you wake up and go to sleep eventually goes away. Trust me, I wake up to...

She using to leverage you against the other guy don't fall for it!

Yeah... She called me like 5 times last night and finally she texted and was like "i always answer your call why can't you answer mine?" I knew it... was a trick to call back and I fell for it.
So I...

Thank you 88 sunflower... you definitely said it best~... Do you think that any time she contact me... she trying to get back ? Probably not right? All wish full thinking

What do I do if my ex keep IMing every few days... I haven't responded... but should I ever respond?

Hey I'm sorry for you loss. I too am fighting this battle and every advice these guys tell you is the bare truth. As crazy as it is... the sticky that are link are closest thing ull ever find a...

Yeah I try to stick with that... so frustrating... keep coming in my mind that she with another guy... and I get all this anger and sadness... does anyone else face these emotions too
?

I can't even compare... I'm really struggling with it... but NC is the answer I assume... even if you want to wish them a happy thanks giving? How do u fight the feeling of being a distant memory,

I totally agree.. I don't know my mind knows the answer and I've read so many story on here but yet my heart doesn't want to listen... when will I be normal again . =/

Hey talaniman and hello everyone,

I've been reading allot of the threads and serious its been a great help.

I'm 25 and my ex is 22. We dated about a year and we saw each other every weekend and...

Moved to its own thread

hey I'm new this site and I've been reading allot of the sticky. I find allot of this information helpful. I ve been in NC for about 2.5 weeks and we broke up almost a...

I just finish this story... and wow.. it def a great help.