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I'm going to stick it out a little longer until I'm absolutely sure. If I leave Canada now and break up, and then find out that I was wrong and she does love me, then I can never come back here...

Actually she made it no secret she wanted to leave Canada, Australia was her dream. She wrote to me on a dating site and I guess others from Australia and NZ. I didn't know this at the time. We...

I think really it should come from her and not me..

That is the thing that is making me so miserable, I thought I had finally found the one. I wouldn't have moved over here and left my family, friends house & dog and businesses if I didn't.

Now...

I agree with what you said. But I feel angry inside towards her, which makes it hard for me to be the fun loving guy I need to be.

I feel like she is cheating on me virtually at the moment and...

Oh I've never said to her that she shouldn't keep in touch with him. I said I would feel more comfortable reading a few more of their emails just so I know he is just a friend. But that never...

This all happened June / July 2006. She has been with a few other guys after this (not really relationships though).

He knows she is with me, this is all on Facebook, he is a friend and can view...

Hi,

My girlfriend of 8 months keeps getting emails from this Australian guy she was with for 3 months (She lives in Canada), from what I can tell they had a great time together. But since he was...

Well it sounds like you have a pretty good grip on the situation, you know he is no good for you. You realise that it is not healthy to give up your life for somebody else.

So this tells me you...

Does he come when he masturbates? If so, no need for a check up.

I wouldn't presume he is cheating just because he doesn't , you really need to continue talking to him. Communication is the key...

Well I think that is probably the biggest problem there. Guys lose interest in having sex if they masturbate too frequently. Why does he masturbate so often, is everything else all right in your...

How often do you guys have sex? Maybe he is masturbating frequently and then when you guys have sex he is unable to for that reason.

I'd talk to him about it in a casual way, not during or...

I've got 2 other girls interested in me, but I'm not so keen on them so was trying not to flirt too much in case I got myself in a sticky situation. But will definitely back off now and keep myself...

Doesn't matter anymore, she blew me off :( I texted her about the mall and she didn't text back, instead she used email and wrote first saying she couldn't do Thursday anymore. I wrote back saying...

What about the grabbing a bite to eat and browsing the shops, don't have to go to a movie. We have never met before so thinking if I don't really like her or vice versa it is quite easy to cut the...

Thanks everyone for your ideas.

I'm meant to arrange something for this Thursday night after work. I figure every other guy is probably taken her to a café and then movie so I wanted to do...

It could be that this other guy has blown her off and she is now lonely wanting her plan b. Also I found that when I stopped being so available to my ex she wanted me even more, there are tons of...

Thanks for your advice. I like the 'Hey, long time no see' line!

I'm usually quite a cheeky person when I feel comfortable with somebody, so hopefully that will shine though in a positive way.

Hi guys,

I'm trying to get back into the dating scene after spending the past 2 months getting over my ex.

Anyway, I've been trying the online dating thing and found a beautiful looking girl...

Yeah I think that sounds like the best way to handle it. You just need to make sure that it gets to them safely, but the letterbox should be fine.

I know, definitely have gone back a few steps! Just feel like crap today. I'll go back on the NC medication and start the healing process all over again.

Damn I'm still hung up on this girl, even though I know it is for the best that she is single. I'm just not letting her go, I don't think I've accepted that it's over still and probably for good.

Hi everyone,

I was doing so well, have made some new friends, flatmates are good and have only heard from ex when she wants to come and see the puppies, that was until this Friday that has just...

Saturday night I went to our local night club with my female flatmate and we were sitting upstairs chatting when my ex walks up and notices me, you could tell she was jealous and didn't know how to...

My understanding of her is this from what I could get out of her last night...

She thinks I'm the perfect guy (attractive etc), but wants to be able to take off with girlfriends for a year to...

She came round last night (her idea), we talked for ages about us, she flirted and cuddled up to me on the couch. Then it got late and she asked if she could stay the night as she didn't want to...

It really is amazing how girls work, the thing I need to figure out if she misses me, or misses the fact that she can no longer have me. I guess the thought of her having to move out this weekend...

Well the method of cutting off contact has obviously worked. She texted me tonight saying she misses me and has made a huge mistake and wants to talk.

Now what do I do.. I still really love her,...

I've pretty much accepted the fact that she needs to be single to sort herself out now. One of her best friends has asked if she can come round and talk to me tomorrow night, so maybe I'll learn...

It's a professionally run social thing, so can't easily change it. I've already paid my registration fee, but I don't care about the money. Have asked them if it is possible to pull out of the team...

Some friends suggested I play social netball with mixed teams every Thursday night as a way of getting exercise and meeting new people which I thought would be good. But I've just found out that my...

Thanks everyone for your advice. I have a feeling she will eventually want me back as some people have mentioned, but I'm not sure I could take her back if she has been dating / sleeping with other...

She came round this morning, I let her do the talking first, she said she thinks she is too selfish to be in a relationship, I said I agreed based on how she has been treating me and said I think she...

Thanks talaniman, I will let her be free and follow your advice. I'll have some new flatmates next weekend, a guy and a girl, so will probably help take my mind off her.

I've tried all this, about 2 months ago I sent her a big bunch of flowers to her work, she rung me up all happy, but still nothing intimate, just nice words etc

Also took her out to dinner a few...

Sorry that this is so long...

- She is 19, I'm 27 (was worried about age difference when first met, but she told me her life story and that she had done a lot of experimenting and was over with...