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I am curious to know if the two months of no contact made her curious about me as much as it made me curious about her.

I just hate how you never know when these feelings of emptiness go away.

Ok... we broke it off in June, but were hanging out on and off throughout the summer. Then in August, she said that she could not do this anymore, and that it was over. Basically, we were having...

This is exactly how I feel. I feel very competitive... almost to the point where I feel as if I have to out do her. The flip side is that sometimes I get depressed, and do not want to do anything.

This is all very true, and very good advice. However, it is easier said than done. How do I stop the comparing?

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Ok... I have a couple other threads on here regarding my breakup which was basically finalized in August of this year. It has been two months since she last contacted me. SInce the...

You are all right. I have been down this road before, and I know what needs to be done. It just sucks going down this road again.

Thank you for all the support. To be honest, when I see my ex girlfriend, who recently ended the relationship, just buy a condo, it makes me feel inferior. I know this is about me coming to terms...

Thanks NorthernNiceGuy. Part of me does miss her, but I find it odd that I went from hearing from her often to not even hearing from her at all while she lives two blocks away from me. I have no...

UPDATE!!

I haven't heard form the ex in a while. However, my friend ran into her the other night, and I she had mentioned her new apartment to him. I immediately cut him short telling himt hat...

I am taking this very slow. So far, we are enjoying each others time. As weird as this sounds, but is it odd that I have been thinking about my ex girlfriend? We have been broken up for months...

Wouldn't asking for a separate check look kind of tacky?

Ok... so last night we were talking. I asked her how much money she likes to spend when she goes out to eat with all of her friends and their boyfriends. She then told me that she went out to a...

You are all right. Maybe these are just my own insecurities that I need to overcome.

All you guys make very good points. The only thing I am still a little confused with is this... do you think she might be showing too much enthusiasm too soon?

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Ok, so a week and a half ago, I met this girl on match.com. We exchanged a couple emails, then phone numbers, and have been talking over the phone quite a bit. Last Friday, we...

Thank you for the responses

I am studying to get my PhD in American History. I want to be a college professor/historian. The thing is that I have a hard time saving money, and I feel as if I see...

Greetings all,

I am a 26 year old male. I served in the Army when I was younger. Earned my Bachelors almost 2 years ago, and will be finished with my Masters in May. I am now preparing to apply...

The only issue I have that gets me going crazy, is picturing her with another guy. I wish I do not have to see that while I am still trying to get over her. Any advice on how I can cope with that??

She turned around and said it was over. I am not going to reach out to her and ask her if she wants to work this out. Whatever is meant to be, will be. Let her live her life, and I will live mine....

Do not forget that she ended it.

OK... My ex and I broke up in June. We started talking again in July and were hanging out again. She told me that she liked how this was going and wanted it to continue so we could get back...

This was the impression I got. When we spoke on the phone, I had an idea. However, when we met in person, I saw right through the person she was being on the phone.

She sent a text last night apologizing for not calling back because she was extremely busy all day. Said she will call me today. I left it just like that.

Ok... so I never heard anything all day after I left her a voice mail in response to her text message after our first meeting. I left the voice manil around 12pm yesterday. I never heard anything...

Actually she was laid off from citigroup. Before we met, she was a little more responsive with the text messages and calling.

It has been over 3 hours now since I left the voicemail. I still have not heard anything.

I understand in always trusting your gut. Aside from that, I do not mind the "chubby" aspect. I only put that out there because I thought there were other reasons as to why she was talking up her...

I actually just called her to tell her "thank you for the text last night. I also had a nice time, and would love to hear about your trip when you come back" However, I got her voicemail, but I did...

You don't think this would be overdoing it? I think when you put yourself out there too much, it comes off as a turn off. I could be wrong. I am still wondering if she really was interested or...

You know what, I am willing to follow this up with another date or two to see who she is and what she is really about.

Ok. So I joined match.com. I met started chatting with a girl who is the same age, and lives in the same general area as I do. FYI, her and I are both 26 yrs old. Anyway, the conversation on the...

I mean, I even asked her if she wants to get married because she loves me or because she is starting to see everyone else around her getting married. She actually came out and told me that it was...

I guess I am... I am just afraid as to how my life is going to change as a result. Will I be happy or not? Will her and I be able to compromise?

Once it is broken down like this, you hit it right on the head.

Since we got back together I have been examining this from a different perspective. I feel a huge red flag went up, and now I want to feel this out further before I discuss marriage. As far as...

I don't understand how I can save up enough money for a wedding and a down payment on a place to live in just one year. Also, she got to have it her way when she called a break, I feel I want time...

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Ok... I have been with my girlfriend for almost 3 years, and she is now starting to really push for marriage. Keep in mind that last summer she called a break because she was not...

That's true... but she never raises it as an issue or as a suggestion until her parents say something.

I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years now. I am 26 and she is 27. Her and I have been discussing marriage. I love her a lot, but feel as if her family is asserting themselves too much into my...