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I understand that because these are friends you are going to report back to, you don't want to let them down. And you don't want to lose them as friends over this.
Make sure, before you all decide,...

That is what your help is worth it to her. She wants to show her appreciation. You may accept the gift. If it becomes a habit, then you need to talk her out of it, because help does not need to be...

Talk to your daughter about this and then together find out together why the mother of the groom is doing this.

Sorry for your loss! Does your school have a counselor you could confide in? You need to find a grown-up who will support you through this, try a teacher or the school principle.

I guess this depends how often you clean your toilet. It definitely won't hurt to leave it overnight to soak once in a while.

Sorry, duh... ptsd... just realized that you wrote this in your question. Have you had therapy?

Maybe you are having post traumatic stress. You work in the medical field... is there a doctor you could speak to about this? Dreams usually reflect what we experience and what we think and feel. If...

Dieselgirl2236,
See it as a blessing that you got to see your fiancé again, even if it was 'only' in your dream. It seems that everything you wished for in real life came true in your dream. Many...

Hi Celesto,
Obviously your now ex-boyfriend did not make a clear cut break-up if he still texts you and still wants to go out to dinner with you. Seems to be the same pattern he has with his past...

That's what having a broken heart feels like, it's painful!

Once you've grieved, you will look back and know you did the right thing. Don't regret your choices, because you can grow stronger from...

Hey quiiz
Read through this! Does anything remind you of yourself? Being masochistic doesn't necessarily have to be in a sexual context.
From wikipedia:
Self-defeating personality disorder is:
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Silver,
Seems like most people around the army brat try to avoid her. You're the sucker! To your questions:
Has she decided she no longer has use for me and has discarded me? ---> It might very...

You wrote that wearing diapers has nothing to do with sexual preferences... and now you say it is a sexual thing! I wish for you that you find someone who also wears diapers or feels the emotional...

BB24
What exactly happens to you emotionally when you don't wear diapers? Do you actually pee and poop in them?
You are illusional if you think that your behavior can be compared to being gay. It...

Roberto136,
Seek psychological help from a professional. He or she can help you work through traumatic events of your past, so you can forgive yourself and so you can move on.

So you pay all the bills? Also for the rent of where you both are currently living? What exactly makes you feel secure?

I am glad you know where you are going... don't quite see how I helped, but your welcome.

Do you happen to know anyone in her family or someone who has known her longer you could talk to about her. Sounds to me like she has some kind of personality disorder. She might have psychiatric...

Wish I could support you more than just through this web-forum... Sorry to hear that you are feeling low today. It's normal, especially after a 4.5 year relationship. Totally understandable. You must...

Could you explain how she changes from one minute to the other in more detail?

It doesn't make sense. Why did she say that she didn't love you anymore? Did you smother her that she is pushing you away?

Are you masochistic? Do you like being treated like trash? Maybe you don't love yourself enough to know that you are hurting yourself by not moving on and letting go.

Silvercannonca, I have the same questions as Wondergirl, plus, I didn't quite understand the blow up that you called her on saying biting things? Can you give an example?
Another thing that might...

Glad to hear you're having a good day. *smile*

So, let's say you call... hypothetically, of course... what exactly would you talk about? Would he possibly just say the same thing he has said before, which was that he wants to experience other...

Mia, you will also get through Valentine's Day! Keep in mind that this holiday was originally hyped up for sales reasons... that's why it's also called a Hallmark Holiday! By the way, it is still...

The two week no contact deal really makes things more complicated. I can tell you are still unsure about breaking up... '... if we break up.' you wrote. No one can make the decision for you,...

My advice: Do not stay friends! It is too tempting to fall back into old patterns... read what you wrote at the beginning... "good relationship"... do you still see it as good. That is your old self,...

You are absolutely right! I think you already know how the story ends... obviously YOU should be the one telling him that you deserve better and that he can go where the sun doesn't shine.
Girl, I...

Mia, you explained that your boyfriends feelings have changed. This is not something that happens overnight. I agree with Homegirl 50 about your boyfriend wanting to ease the breakup... easy for him,...

Mia,
What is the purpose of this 2 week no contact break? And who came up with it? Was this something you both initiated?
Now, to having a bit of alone time... this might actually be a chance to...

Lynn1979,
You are torturing yourself! I bet you are a wonderful person, but you are not treating yourself well. Why do you love him again? Be careful, you are developing a pattern, leaving him, then...

Talk to both of them together! You want to know what the deal is, ask both of them. Your girldfriend... although she sounds very open about what she wants and what she is up to... in a way she is...

Meii,
Many kids feel under pressure to be in a relationship during high school. Most important is that you feel confident within yourself. Meii, your wish to marry the first guy you date is a nice...

Bigboy31,
I have also always made the distinct difference between being in love and loving someone. To me 'in love' is the feeling of having butterflies in the stomach. Loving someone, to me, goes...

Alex5500,
If a cat behaves the way you have described, then she/he might be traumatised. Your cat is telling you that something is not in order. I must say, if you are a cat owner, you need to have...

Souhait,
I have seen cats with stiff back legs and always wanted to suggest to the owner to go to a physiologist to give their cat physiology. I am not a vet, but I believe that just as humans do...

Ever 197,
Forgiveness is one of the greatest gifts a human can give, but it usually doesn't happen over night. Congratulations on the strength you provide also for your kid. It is still adviseable...

'Clueless' with Brittany Murphy as the girl who can't afford the fashionable clothes... 1995?

My condolences for your loss.
Here is a website that might have a scripture: http://arksoaper.wordpress.com/our-story/scripture-to-comfort/
I wish you and your family much strength in such a hard...

Hi lostgirl 94
Anyone who would have put themselves out there to help someone, as you did, would be going through the motions for being betrayed and emotionally stabbed in the back. You have...

Odinn7,
I never said that Ever197 shouldn't have read the e-mails. I simply said that it would be an issue when speaking to her husband. I most likely would have done the same thing in her...

It probably makes it even harder for you because you were unsure in the first place and took a chance by getting married. Getting a professional involved, by going to counseling might help you, even...

I still don't understand what your original question was by writing your statement, granny567. When I say that you accuse others, I am speaking about you accusing your daughter of not giving you what...

How much do you know about yourself? Why do you feel you need to be more talkative? My husband is very sociable, but hardly ever speaks. My best male friend on the otherhand speaks like a waterfall....

It might be the movie 'Pretty in Pink'. See if it matches your memory by following this link: http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0091790/

Ever197,

You need to find a way to communicate with your husband and not only for the sake of your kid!
As hurtful as it must be to have found those e-mails, don't assume anything about when the...

It somewhat sounds like the movie 'Single White Female'. Follow this link to see if the movie description matches your search: http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0105414/plotsummary
I think there were also...

Sounds like your husband is escaping from reality which could indicate a type of depression, which again is understandable in his situation. And he might feel overwhelmed with his responsibilities...

Depends on his intentions... he really should offer to pay for the trip. Best thing is to speak to the female friend openly about this, especially if he has budgetary issues.