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Thanks for a very real and reassuring answer. It helps to know its not always the same for all guys. I don't feel as though he doesn't want me ever it just doesn't seem like sex is as big as a...

I noticed this with him long before he was diagnosed with HB. He's only been on meds for about 3 weeks. It's not that he can get it up. It just takes a lot longer and sometimes doesn't seem as hard.

No he hasn't, but the doc didn't even mention that.

No, we have 2 sons and have been trying for this one for 9 years. We met when we were 17, had our 1st at 18, got married at 19 and had our 2nd at 23. We've been married for 15 years.

I am having an issue with my husband only wanting sex once a week. We have been together 17 years, but we are still young. Am I expecting too much? Do you think this is normal? He used to act VERY...

He actually talked to his doctor about the meds and he didn't seem too concerned with it. The doctor I mean. My husband voiced my concerns about him maybe losing his ability to get erections and he...

I have noticed that my husbands erections have been changing in the past year or so. He is 35 and is just VERY recently on HBP medication. My question is... do men's erections just change with age?...

You had the same tampon in all day? That's why it hurt, hon. You can't leave them in all day. Ever heard of TSS? If you did break it, it is no big deal. When you first have sex it will hurt...

I am a female and I totally agree with this guy. Exactly like a sneeze except 1000% better of course. I also agree that you can't stop, but why would you want to? Trust me you will know and your...

That's really too bad. I enjoy giving it as much as my husband enjoys receiving it I think. You'll have to decide if this sex thing is important to her at all. If you aren't sexually compatible that...

Gosh I'd consider myself lucky. You must REALLY turn her on. Maybe she could perform oral on you until you are really close and then you could switch over to sex? Then maybe you could have an...

This morning sickness is killing me. I NEVER feel good ever. Before I eat I am sick and after I eat I am sick. Nothing is helping. My doctor even put me on meds for it. I am a little over 13 weeks....

I totally agree with you. I don't want anything to happen to him. He is not overweight and is in good health other than HBP. The doctor did put him on medication. A type of water pill or something.

Well I just don't feel as though he has ED as of now. I am just concerned that he might. Can having HBP itself cause problems or is it the meds that cause the problems?

We have sex and right now he has no problems. Although it does take a little longer for him to get an erection. He's almost 35. To some people it probably doesn't take long and to some it might. I...

Does having high blood pressure decrease libido or does the medication for it decrease it? My husband's blood pressure is elevated recently and I have also noticed a lack of desire. Plus he's always...

It happened to me. I was on the pill for 2 1/2 years after my first son was born and as soon as I went off I stopped having a period. I didn't have a period for a year. We found out I was not...

Bunny sex would be nice. He is so back and forth though. I am 3 months along by the way. Sex is definitely on the back burner for him for whatever reason and I hate that. I'm going to TRY to back...

Maybe he IS turned off by this pregnancy. It would make sense according to how he is acting. Of course he says he's not, but would he say he is? NO. Like even when we go to bed at the same time,...

A couple of days shy of 3 months.

I hope you are right. I know I rely on our sexual relationship too much, but I just want to feel wanted. You know? After the 2-3 weeks what would be your advice if things are going the same way. I...

I think it's great that you have waited until you are 19. Nowadays that's not too common. Plus you've been with him over a year. I say if you feel emotionally and physically ready then go for it. It...

Does being pregnant make me more insecure? I have never thought about my husband cheating on me when our sex life wasn't up to par. BUT now that I'm pregnant I can't seem to think of anything else.

I really hope that him having an affair isn't an issue. I asked him about it and of course he said no way. He gives me his pay stub every week and I am the one who takes care of all of our money. I...

I hope that him having an affair isn't an issue. I know he works long hours and is very tired most of the time. Maybe he feels pressure with the sex thing since I talk about it all the time. I don't...

Well, comfortable or not, I HAVE to wear one. So I guess wearing one is more comfortable for me. Of course I don't wear one to bed.

Well I haven't said anything. I have the kind of relationship where I never say anything to her about my feelings. I just don't get it. Sure I'm happy, but I am scared to death. What place is it of...

My husband and I recently found out we are expecting our 3rd child. We have been trying for many years. The way we told our families is by using scrabble pieces and they had to spell out the words...

How long is he home? I think if he was messing around he probably wouldn't be so eager to hop in the sack with you when he got home. Maybe he misses the sex as much as you. Do you initiate?

He was never too concerned with not having sex with our other 2 kids, but that was quite a few years ago. We were having sex 2-3 times per week, but when he wanted to he would come to me and really...

I totally agree with you. I have always felt it is because of my insecurities that I am reacting this way. I just wish I knew how to center it someplace else.

The past 3 times we've done something has been on my part though.

Yes I have. He never seems too upset about it most of the time.

I have talked to him and of course he doesn't think he's doing anything differently. He never does. I have told him that for some reason him wanting me sexually is what is making me feel secure and...

I am missing my old sexual husband. I have posted on here a few times about him not being as sexual any more. We are both 34, but I don't want to hear that his age might have something to do with it....

Now 2 mornings ago I walked in on him starting to whack off. He was so embarrassed, but I was pissed. I know that that can and should be separate from your sex life and it's not as though I don't do...

Maybe with the shower head it is not direct stimulation(which sometimes can be TOO intense). Maybe just be a little more gentle at first. Use different things other than your tongue which might not...

So far you guys have been most helpful. Keep on posting though. It really helps.

Thanks a lot. That's really helpful. I hope once I feel better everything all around will be better.

I am only 9 weeks pregnant with our 3rd child. We had been trying for almost 9 years so our kids are older. Right before we found out I felt things were going great. He was attentive, flirty, and...

I am just feeling insecure I guess. There is no question of him being unfaithful here. You know when you like the way someone is being towards you and then they stop? It's a little disheartening. I...

I am only 9 weeks along and I had been complaining about the way things were going before we had found out. Complaining that he doesn't touch me the way he used to. I'm into sexual grabbing. Like he...

I am almost nine weeks pregnant and I am about to lose my mind here. I have tried everything to ease this nausea and nothing works. My doc has put me on some prescription, which is not helping, and...

It is the attention for sure. The sexual attention more than anything. I wish it weren't that way. It gets in the way of me being happy, because when he doesn't do it I don't think he wants me...

Hi my husband and I have 2 boys ages 16 and 12. We have not been preventing pregnancy for 9 years now. All these years I have longed to be a new mother again and my husband has had both feet in the...

Oh honey, are you in a great position right now. You have a horny young woman wanting you and my guess is if she wants to have sex with you then the problems you think could arise are not even...

Maybe you should make him finger you first before you let him bend you over. How about oral sex?

Ouch! That's not cool. Sounds like you sound great with your booty. Be proud. I bet you wouldn't point out one of his flaws. Maybe you should?

Do you want me to ask more questions?

Well our anniversary was last night and yippee for me. We had great oral sex and he stayed hard even after he came so I climbed aboard and had two of the most amazing orgasms ever. He wasn't going to...