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Something's not right, but the bottom line is that he can't even tell you the problem. That doesn't make sense. He should respect you enough to tell you what he's heard and at least hear you out. ...

I completely agree with Answerme. The absolute best thing that you can do is to avoid all contact with her whatsoever. Move on and do your own thing. The more you try to go after her and change...

You can't tell your friends and family because you know what they would say. They would tell you that you are way too good to waste your time on someone who would lie/hide things from you like he...

Haha, yes I seem to do things the hard way too but if that's what it takes! As long as it gets done is what matters in the end.

Just having found a place where I can openly admit that I do have a big issue that I need help with and have all of you that have cared enough to spend the time giving insight and advice on my...

All of what you are saying makes sense. I do want to go back to the woman I was when we met. Not just for him, but I need that for me. I do work, and I have made a few friends here. I have been...

There was never a day that we didn't communicate while things were long distance. He would call everyday. At that point, I was OK. Things didn't really start getting bad for me until a few months...

As much as you are hurting right now, you can't spend your life with someone who just doesn't feel the same way. And you can not make someone feel for you in a way that you might feel for them. You...

Ninja is right. She has made a decision and at this moment the relationship that the two of you did have is not what she wants. You have to accept that for now, and do what you can to move on. ...

Give him the space that he says he needs, but don't wait around for him. Take some time to do things for yourself. Maybe there is something that you have wanted to do and just never gotten around...

I really don't know how or why these feelings started. It's just that I seem to have a real problem knowing how a healthy relationship should be. In my head I know that when things settle they are...

I will find something... I have to. I really don't want to loose this. I don't know why or how things got to be this way for me, but I don't like what it has caused me to become. It has turned...

Yes we do live together.

I am happy here. It has definitely been a huge change, but I don't regret coming here at all. I have thought about finding a hobby, or getting involved in something that I enjoy doing but I haven't...

I am ashamed at what I have become, but you are all so right. So much... ok, lets say all of the way I feel on a certain day spins off this relationship and I hate that I am this way. I do realize...

Yes... unfortunately you are right.

We dated long distance a little over 9 months and I have been here about 3.

A litte over a year ago, I met a man that I was certain was the one. What started as a long distance relationship has grown into what I had only dreamed about. I recently moved to be with him and...