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I don't want him as a friend. I was wondering if I should just message back something like please don't contact me. I know he will keep on trying to message me.

What is the point of being in a relationship with him, there is clearly no trust.

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Hey everyone!

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So my ex and I broke up in the middle of feb. We were together for 3 years. After the break up I deleted him from my Facebook,messenger, email,...

Is $400 dollars really worth having to keep talking to her?

I feel really guilty today. He is a great guy and he has a great heart. He thinks something is wrong with him, and he's really insecure about depressed. I think breaking up with someone is just as...

You seem like you are very jealous of this guy. Also you don't trust your girlfriend. You seem to have a lot insecurities. If you touch this guy, your girlfriend will get mad at you because she will...

If your girlfriend is saying she likes someone else. You should breakup with her. Leave this guy alone, you have no right to touch this guy. He is a human being. That would be really selfish of you.

What is an acceptable amount of time to pass before a friendship could start?

I just did it, he was in shock, cried. He told me how so many women have done this to him. He says I was an amazing girl and he doesn't want to lose me. He still wants me to go to his friend's...

Sorry to say, but you were just his rebound. Don't talk to him anymore, unless if you want just be friends. If not, you will just get hurt.

I just called him to breakup with him and he has a bunch of friends over for the night. So I'll have to wait till tomorrow. Also he did a bunch of research for me because I have a lot of stomach...

I feel like he is obsessed with me, he just got off work and he's already text messaging me. Every free minute of his time in the last week he is contacting me. I want to wait till tomorrow to do it...

Depends on your feelings towards them. If you are dying to be with them again, its best to stay NC because you will probably just get hurt again.
I never have an interest in contacting Ex's it...

I have been in relationship's since I was 16 (now 20). I really want to focus on my career. I actually told him that before our first date. But I guess he really likes me. I feel bad hurting people...

Thank you everyone. I have another question, he lives pretty far I was wondering if I should do this over the phone? I won't be seeing him till Friday and it will be at a friend's birthday party. We...

I hope we could hangout as friends. I feel so bad because he has paid a lot of things for me and he's so nice. I really wish I had a connection with him because he would be the perfect boyfriend.

Hello everyone,

I need some advice please.

Here's the background of us:

Last Friday: I went on a date with a guy. He took me out to dinner and after we played billiards and watched a movie....

She probably feels guilty from hurting you so much. You need to STOP talking to her right now! Also delete that guy from your game list. Your only going to get hurt.

I think you have absolutely made the right decision. The thing about when young people fall in love, they lose track of there own future because they're so focused on just the relationship.
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That's awesome to hear! You will have lots of fun on your trip! Keep us posted :D

Do you have any hobbies? Or anything keeping you busy throughout the day? Or is she the only thing you worry or think about in the day?
If you have nothing else to distract you then you are going...

Does he have any interest to work out things? It really doesn't seem like it.

If he does, I would try counseling.

Their seems to be a lot of issue's hidden throughout the years.

Sounds like a lot of fun!! Good luck learning mandarin, it seems really hard!!

That's not true. You will find a girl again, that you will love and care for.

Usually dads don't like anyone that their daughters bring home. The fact you have a mohawk, gives him a reason to not like you. Don't worry, just be polite in front of him. He will eventually see the...

She probably just feels guilty for breaking up and hurting you. So she tells you, she wants to take thing slow. I suggest do no contact. You said, talking to her hurts you. If you continue with this...

After I was broken up with, I wrote letters for about 2 weeks straight every night and I also would always write what I felt that day (ex. Sad, angry, lonely). Then one day I realized I hadn't...

If it is bad news, make sure to keep your cool. Wait till she leaves to cry or get angry. Don't show it in front of her.

I hope tomorrow goes well. Keep us posted :)

The kid is 16 already, he probably won't even be that involved. You seem jealous of this kid? He's still a human being. Get to know him, I bet he's a cool guy. Go out with him and your boyfriend, you...

This seems like it will be very awkward for your boyfriend and his girlfriend. Is a child's party really the best place to 'catch up'? I wouldn't invite him.

She already told you. Sorry for this, but she doesn't have the same feelings for you anymore. You need to make sure not to talk to her, its so you can heal and move on. You're overanalyzing...

If you don't want anything to do with the child, I would suggest leaving him, because he's going to have this child (every weekend or however its worked out) for the next 18years.

I think you are getting over her. Great letter. :)

Time helps and to never lie to him! Although he seems to REALLY not trust you. I'm surprised he is dating you. I couldn't date someone I had completely no trust in.

It's probably an ingredient in the cream. Maybe its to harsh for your skin. I would try a different day cream.

This is a bit weird, ask him why he didn't want you to come. He could be planning a surprise for you or something. You never know.

You did so much for her, she didn't appreciate it. Find some who will appreciate your good heart.

He doesn't seem interested in you anymore. Stop worrying about him. You said it didn't start on the right path and it's already been 3 months and things aren't going well already. Time to move on.

If you do trust her now, why does the past matter. It was so long ago, she probably hasn't even thought about in years. Focus more on your future together than the past, how can you ever move forward...

Don't even worry about what MIGHT happen. If you do, then you're going to be waiting every day by the phone. Forget her. You deserve someone else. There are so many people in this world. Lots of...

Don't waste your time or your money on someone who doesn't even care enough to answer you. Treat yourself with this money. Go out buy some clothes or new CD's, whatever you enjoy. :)

No problem! It's normal to still care about the person. But reality is you care about someone who isn't even the same person anymore. You love who she used to be.
Being on this website has helped...

I understand, just stay busy, go out with friends. Soon enough you will find someone that catches your attention. You will feel all warm and fuzzy inside again. Soon your memories of this girl will...

I know how you feel, I've been dealing with this for 1 month now.

You seem like a really great guy. But she's really young, she probably doesn't even fully understand what she has done, she's probably living more in the moment. I'm not an expert either, but I think...

I'm sorry for your loss, you seem to really love this girl. But unfortunately she has moved on. You need to stop talking to her. Stop analizing everything, its over. You seem to be a lot more mature...

I love taking risks to see what I can accomplish. Sometimes I'll take risks even if I KNOW I can't accomplish it to perfection, but I at least want to see how well I can do. :)

I am getting the impression you do want to break up with him, but your to afraid because of his temper. Think about that. You are going to keep on feeling like this until you do breakup with him....

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