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No I visited every single weekend and sometimes during the week even though I was an hour and half away. I would be at least less put off by this if I even knew her a little bit, but I haven't even...

I don't know what section this belongs in because it is so confusing. My mom passed away August 31 last year - she had lung cancer so we knew it would happen eventually but she was in good health...

You first posted this is March - and you are still going through all of this just as if it was day 1 in March. When my ex broke up with me it was April 09 - I wallowed in it for a while - but by...

Sounds to me like you are "goign out" with her for convenience and she is doing the same thing. Of course when you break up with her you are going to be miserable at first - you deal with it and it...

Unfortunately - my mom passed away last week - I posted it under bereavement but some of you guys on this thread have been so helpful with break ups - figured id let you know. If u have ever...

I'm happy because of all the ways she could have passed - this was the nicest - most comfortable way imaginable under the circumstances. A lot of people with cancer take weeks to die slowly. I do...

Yea I can see how I am in shock - honestly I understand what has happened but I know it hasn't really sunk in how many htings in life will be different now. I feel almost mad at myself for not being...

So my mom had cancer for 8 years - lung cancer - she was only supposed to leave 18 months back then but she outlived htat by far. She had been in pretty good health two weeks ago. Her and I went...

Keep your chin up - I'm sure school is starting if it hasn't already. Keep to the no contact - just go about your life as if your life is great and she is the person that is missing out - and make...

I wouldn't worry about her cheating until she actually does. If you love her the way you say you do - you should love her no matter what her faults are. You can't have a healthy relationship with...

Yea you need to start making a conscious decision to not dwell on her when she pops into your mind. Seriously my ex pops into my mind randomly through out the week - I think about it for about a...

Really you aren't alone in the fact that she pops into your mind still. I wore a shirt my ex gave me today to a phillies game and he popped into my head - its so easy to think about the good things....

I agree - you are wasting your time. How can you be with someone you can't trust whose morals are also questionable?

How long are you willing to waste time on her. She makes u feel good in the...

Yep - still happens sometimes. It's normal to miss someone - My ex and I broke up April 2009 and I still miss him on occasion - just get your mind off it and think of how much fun your life is now....

Sounds like its over, you just don't want to believe it. I dated a guy who was recently divorced and he was very much the same. He never really cared about anyone except himself. He was wonderful...

Also, you need to think about your motives behind sending that letter. If she doesn't respond- how will that make you feel. If she responds angrily, how will that make you feel? If she is upset -...

Took a while to get through it, but it really is a sad story. I have no idea how you could break up and have a plan to get back together one day. It would kill me to know someone I love so much is...

I live in a small area as well and had to deal with knowing that all of my friends still hung out with my ex. You just need to ask them to keep any info they have on her to themselves.

Sounds...

I didn't even start posting on this site till we had been broken up for 3 months, so 2 months is nothing dude! If you cared about someone it is going to take a while. Check out a counseling program...

That's how it goes. Stay busy - and you will start to have a life that she isn't involved in as much and you will stop thinking about her.

Evenutally you will start to get really pissed off...

You don't need to be the person you were before, but you need to create a life with out your ex. Start doing things that give you the opportunity to meet new people - go to the gym - it makes you...

I agree - just don't go into it thinking that this will change your relationship with her, or that things will be normal between the two of you. Recognize that things will be awkward, show your...

No contact really is the only way to not go back to square one. I understand about the graduation thing. I pretty much didn't even think about no contact until after my ex graduated last year - he...

Call her mom, talk to her - invite only the mom perhaps. Her mom should understand how you feel. It's not that you are mad at your ex, you care about her and seeing her will hurt you because it...

If the ex shows up, it will ruin a day that is supposed to be special for u. How badly do you need the mom and sister there? It's all or nothing then you need to figure out what would be worse -...

Just read through your entire post - so sorry you are going through this. I can relate to both you and the ex. You are doing the right thing though.

I met a guy when I was 17 and we dated for 3...

So just thought I'd provide an update on my situation. As of last night, I have been single for a year now. Honestly, I've been in a great mood recently. Last night for a little bit I did feel a...

She obviously doesn't know what she wants. She says she wants to see you, but doesn't want to be friends, but also thinks it would be too hard to have any kind of relationship with you, and then you...

Totally agree with Vanheart - even though the system won't let me!

Reread what all of us said about not contacting her - about how she will continue to contact u - and how you should not read into any of it. She will NEVER respond to you in a way that will make...

Glad you are doing well! Keep it up!

Sounds like she wanted her space to do her own thing - but she wants to jump into being friends right away which is NOT A GOOD IDEA AT ALL. For you to cope and get passed the horrible feelings u are...

She's on vacation - leave her alone until she gets back. She has your number as well, so she can call you when she's free. She could just be busy with her friends. Ask her if she wants to get dinner...

Just don't contact her. Might as well just let her think you were making out with someone else, who cares? No sense defending yourself, what is it going to get you? You really need to just STICK...

Well really its up to you. Most people on here from our experiences are going to tell you its not a good idea, but you will do what you think is right for you. I went out to dinner with my ex a few...

Relationships and breaking up are both rollercoaster rides. One day you can't stand the person, then something reminds you of them and you miss them. It works for both parties of the relationship. ...

Well before you go out with the new girl tomorrow, tell her the truth. You like her, but you are just getting over your last relationship, and you don't really want to date anyone seriously until...

Once you fall in love with someone else, your feelings won't be the same for your ex. You will still care about her, but not in the same way -and you will be glad that you two broke up, because if...

I know EXACTLY how you feel. Its been almost a year for me and I still sometimes wish it would work out between us, but at the same time I don't think he deserves the time of day from me. And yes,...

So last night, my key wouldn't come out of the ignition. The key rotates just past the ACC line, but not all the way to off. After about 30 minutes of turning the car on and off and jiggling the...

my thread that is called something like friends with ex mutual friends or something like that (click on my name and look at all threads I've started). IF nothing else it will distract you for a few...

I just read your entire thread. Read mine - its really long but it'll show you why being friends with an ex is super hard. I think he and I could potentially be friends in maybe a year or two when...

So glad to hear that you are feeling better. Take a lot of time to do things for you that you want to do, and don't worry about when your next relationship will start. It will happen eventually and...

It seems to me like you are in the mind set that she is the ONLY person for you in this world. Each time I have had my heart broken, a few months or years later a new guy who is even better than the...

My mind is still wondering how my ex was able to do a 180 on me - I guess that's the mystery - if we knew how that happened we think maybe we wouldn't hurt so much - but you know - maybe we would...

A. PLEASE stay safe, and don't do anything to hurt yourself (or your loved ones). There is no person out there that is worth giving up your own life for! Believe me it hurts - but in time it...

I live in a small area - and used to run into my ex all the time. I got to say it was hard at first. Then I learned to avoid places where he might be - at least for a few months until I thought I...

It takes everyone a different amount of time to get other people that were important to them. I went out with one guy for 3 years - we broke up and I wasn't phased at all - went out with one guy for...

So, I have the choice of going to a new years eve party with all of my friends, but my exbf and his new girlfriend will be there. I'm still on the fence about it. But last night I actually went out...

Yep, I think you might be a very lucky person to have met a person who would leave you in a classy gentlemanly way. Cherish the fun times for what they were, and know that he isn't in your life...