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I have an idea: Don't cheat on your husband.

There are a lot of things you can do with all that built up energy. It's not just sexual energy, it can be a mix of a lot more. Before you go and...

Doesn't that seem a bit fishy to you? Something or someone obviously got her thinking and now she wants to pursue it.


Reading your updates with this girl, now she wants you back?. just like...

It's just emotional baggage. Just because you guys are breaking up and moving on, doesn't mean all the emotion goes with it. Your feelings actually hold on a lot longer than you think.

You're...

Sorry to hear that man. Fact is, she broke up with you because she didn't want to be with you anymore. As much as it pains you, it's the truth and you have to accept that.

You cannot win someone...

She has a boyfriend. Do you really not see the GIANT red flag with a boyfriend?

What the hell do you need help with?

I'm sure it hurts, and the pain is a lesson well learned. If you keeping in contact with her keeps hurting you, what do you think you should do to relieve the pain?

Stop talking to her. I'm sure...

Pick one.

Can't? Be single.

You do not call, she broke up with you and it's not clear to you yet. She's giving you mixed signals, comforting HERSELF by using you to cuddle and what-not. She wants to leave and not be with you...

Trust is extremely hard to regain back, do you think he can do it?

Or will you let him?


My best advice: Hold off on the marriage and work on the trust issue. Communitation with each other,...

Sounds like she's boy crazy and loves the attention. Even though she showed interest in you, she also did with her BOYFRIEND, you and this other guy. She cannot make you happy.

You already know...

Even though you know what you need to do, you cave in and keep making the wrong decisions.

Why do you feel this way? Because you keep talking to her.

Better to have her in your life in some...

"Ignore her to get her back"

Huge misconception as to how an ex comes back.

Ignore her for you, not her. Do this, and you wouldn't care about getting her back, but getting your life back.

If she has a new boyfriend, her contacting you is very slim. Even so, don't worry about keeping in contact with her and do NC for your sake.

You might become friends, but that's not until later....

She is extremely unstable. She doesn't know what she wants and she has you to catch her if something goes wrong.

You should have left a long time ago, all these chances are giving her security of...

It seems like you're asking questions for the wrong reasons. He has left you and it is over, I'm very sorry for your loss but it happens to the best of us. You keep asking questions that shouldn't...

Is this a joke?

You're married, have two boyfriends and one of which is also married... do you really need to ask how to handle this situation?

Dump your first MARRIED boyfriend and dump the...

The only way to get an ex back, is if they come back.

Leave her alone and get yourself in check.

NC works but it takes time. It seems like you're talking to him though, maybe that's why you can't get over him.

He is no good for you, really try NC and be strong.

You should be over him by now, but here's the problem:

He's avoiding you and you're not getting it. He broke up with you, for whatever reason, and it's over. He was softening the blow for his sake...

Red flag.

I believe your new friend is going to get hurt.

You're confused because you believe what she's telling you.. and what she's telling you is not 100% honest and is now leading you on. I know how you feel and I know what you're going through man, we...

Stop right there. This is another one of your many breaks from your ex girlfriend, but the only difference is, you've met someone you're interested in. Before you start to build another relationship...

Honestly?

This one's up in the air right now. Will he ever take you back and things be perfect again? Maybe. It really depends on him and how he feels, considering if he thinks it's worth it or...

You've learned to live with yourself and make your own decisions without obstacles stopping you from doing so.

I would say that's the one of the greatest things you can accomplish.

Leave this whole mess before you have to worry about cleaning it up.

Divorce your husband, he deserves so much better.

It sounds like the games are being tossed back and forth.

It also sounds like she isn't being truthful to you.

Don't bother with this one.

My ex would say the same thing. She would want to be with me but didn't want to marry me. She was very negative towards any deeper commitment. After months of me knowing she didn't want to marry me,...

This isn't a Hollywood movie people, this is real life. It is so selfish to consider breaking up a perfectly happy relationship for the sake of YOUR happiness.

BOTTOM LINE: He is happy with...

He has a girlfriend, nothing can happen. Even if he initiates, that doesn't make it okay. Case closed.

Pink... he's your cousin. How did you let the relationship get this far? Being in a relationship with your cousin must be very weird and will probably be that or worse for your family if you guys...

It's a tragedy that you've broken NC just to find this out. All you can do now is stay away, and I highly recommend it. She will keep you in a state where you're not happy, so move away from her and...

You should stay away from him. He has a girlfriend and he's happy. Does his girlfriend know you guys are talking late, until 3 in the morning? I don't know if that would fly with her, and I don't...

It hurts now because it is still fresh.

It will fade in time.


In the MEANTIME, talk about your feelings with him, communication is what will save something that seems to be falling apart....

It's all about how you carry yourself.

You cannot blame women for your failed relationships.

I agree, it's hard to let someone go, especially your first love... but you're making it almost impossible for you to feel better about it and move on. You're letting her use you for sex with no...

You shouldn't sweat it man, this is just a setback you were going through. I felt like I was struggling to breathe, like I was already dead inside. It will get a lot easier in time. I felt exactly...

You dragging this out about wanting more information is just disguising your true intention, and that's to wait.. wait.. wait... and then go back to her. I can see it already, do not go back to her....

She dumped your @ss, said hurtful things to you when you tried to get close to her, picked up a rebound and slept with this guy, and is now running back to you because the rebound (like all rebounds)...

Sit and have a talk with him. If you feel that it is worth it, then go for it. If not, I don't see the point in continuing. Good luck.

Jealousy tends to come from insecurity, you cannot base feelings from something off self-consciousness.

If you get jealous over seeing the "other" person with someone else, I'd say he/she is still...

You are in no condition to handle a text from your ex, with that kind of messege you want to send. She left you for another guy, she doesn't deserve your attention, not even a drunk text.

Maybe for her. I don't think you should have the mentality of trying to get back together. She has clearly stated that she wants her freedom, that's why she dumped you. The reason she keeps running...

Things are casual, just have fun. Don't worry too much. If she likes you, she will still be around.

Go NC. Who cares if she still wants to keep in touch, do this for YOU.

Go NC and never look back.

You haven't tried it yet, so why assume it will never heal wounds?

Come back in a month or two, let me know how you feel then.

I'm sorry, but there is absolutely NO situation where someone wants to take a break, only to want to get back together again. It doesn't work that way. She broke up with you and now she's making you...

You're confused because she's making it very difficult for you to try anything with her. That's called playing games, and believe me, they're not fun. Why do you insist on sticking around when she...

Why are you putting up with this? You left him and now, trying to be friends with this guy. Why's that? Because you love all his BS he throws at you?

This is an easy one, just ignore him. Do not...

If he loves you, he should be willing to wait.

Forcing you to have sex with him is not love.

If you lose him, all the better for you, you are not ready. Tell him.