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Just out of curiousity, do any of you feel weird thinking how your current bf/gf used to kiss other people?

Personally, I feel a little weird about it (this is the first time I've dated someone...

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My girlfriend and I have been dating almost two years. It's been a fairly good relationship with a few up and downs, but we've been pretty close for the most of it.

I'm a...

So I just talked to her, and she said that all she wants is for me to say I love you randomly. I'm pretty sure that's not all she wants, but I think it is part of how she feels.

Dyno- I can see...

Wondergirl- I've tried to do a lot of that stuff before, but I'm getting the feeling that she wants more. Like, I've tried to make it so that we still have something to talk about no matter what.
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She doesn't really complain to me or talk to me about problems a lot simply because she doesn't tend to have a lot of problems. She tells me it's more that I don't talk to her or spontaneously start...

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My girlfriend of a year and a half have recently hit a snag. She says she feels like I just don't care about her, and she also feels like she enjoys talking to her other friends...

These are some great ideas. And unfortunately, I'm severely handicapped in not only letters but in photo albums as well >.<

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So yea, my girlfriend and I have been going out for quite a while, and our 1 year is coming up fairly soon. She's moving to CA this summer, so I won't be able to see her too often...

Nah. Just tell her you want to live alone. Short, simple, sweet, and the truth. No excuses, remember!

Be blunt about it, but don't be insensitive. Say something like, "Hey, I'm sorry, but I decided to live alone for a bit." Leave it at that. If she pursues it, tell her the benefits of you living...

Well, you don't have to be checking in every night. You can talk to him on the weekends. And if he moved, if he was really trying to make an effort to you, he would be calling every night.

And KC...

Well, breaks usually tend to lead to break-ups. There are exceptions, but that's the general rule.

And from what you've told us, it doesn't sound like she's going to be stuck thinking about you...

Not your fault. Cut this guy loose, or tell him he better shape up his act. If he cares about you, he will. If he doesn't, then you're better off without him, right?

Until you stop communicating with your ex, anything u do to try and make it work with your husband will fail. If you don't want to be with your husband, come clean. If you want to try, then stop...

Leopards don't change their spots. He's not going to change either.

It could be nothing. She or you could be a flirt and you two could just be fooling around. See how things turn out over the next few days; who knows, it could just be harmless fooling around.

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The title says it all. What do you people think? I think it's okay as long as it doesn't lead to something else. But that's just me. What do you think?

Of course we make bad decisions. But we can't go in the past. And we can only learn from what we did. It's possible it was a total mistake; too late now, move on and learn from it. But then again,...

Well I don't really like this other girl for her looks, more for her personality.

Yeah, I know what you mean. I was in a situation like this before and I turned the girl down, but this time it's a stronger attraction... I don't want to make a mistake, you know?

But if you don't listen to your feelings, isn't it possible to not be happy? If you stay with someone your not attracted to, wouldn't that make it impossible to be happy with them?

Well we haven't really had any problems or fights lately. In fact, it's been OK lately, nothing bad happening. So there's not really anything bad right now, and it complicates things.

I know. We've been doing that for 8 months, and I haven't talked to her about it because we haven't had enough time. I'm just looking for some input because I don't know what to say or how to tell...

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I've been with my girlfriend for 8 months and it's been pretty good until now. We've messed up a lot but it's probably because it's our first real relationship. But now, I met...

Dude, she doesn't want drama from you right now. In other words, she doesn't want you in her life. She's telling you to get over her subtly, but she's telling you nonetheless. Move on and move out;...

Do you want to put your faith into an unsure thing or search for it anew? This is the time for no contact.

Stop listening to their problems. You're your mother's daughter; your responsibility is to live YOUR life, not fix hers. The same applies for your mother's boyfriend. They don't really need...

Dude, honestly, try to keep this post out of your mind lol. This'll keep you coming back to thoughts of your relationship. Cut all ties, which includes this thread.

You WERE very attracted to your ex-husband. You don't love him. You are NOW attracted to your boyfriend, but you don't love him. Often times, when we change our mentality about things, everything...

There are reasons to stay in your marriage and there are reasons not to. But it's not ALL about the kids. They are important. I'm not saying they aren't. But I have to agree with Starbuck because...

This will tell you how.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/how-get-him-her-back-187766.html

Dude... this is outrageous. She's treating you like nothing it seems like, or she's keeping several guys at once. She's dishonest, not serious, a partier... She sounds immature to me, because she...

There will be days when you get to thinking about it. It happens. But try to make it so that you're looking back on memories that you know you can't change. I do that a lot too. I look back on past...

I'd like to add that this probably isn't anything what you wanted to hear. You wanted us to console you and tell you how to win her back. You wanted a step by step formula on how to make it right.
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And I might add Kia, you've been warned for sexist comments before. So why should this be any different?

Okay, I am a guy, and I know a lot of guys, and I also know that guys don't want to hurt the girls they're in a relationship in. Period. But I also know that if any guy has any intelligence...

You can check up on them, sure, but not now. It's only been a week. You both need time to heal. She will heal too. All relationships end in tears and heartbreak except for the "one." Stay strong and...

I think a problem was that you were gambling in the first place. It has pretty much lead to all of this. And if he cares about you, he'll understand if you tell him the truth. Sit him down when he's...

Get out now. Go no contact. Kick him out of your life. I understand that you care for him, but why should you care for somebody who doesn't care for you? He doesn't deserve you, and you are...

Go no contact. Dump every picture you have of her o put them where you won't see them. Delete her from Facebook, msn, IM, and anything else. You need space and time to heal, and that's exactly what...

Ok, now see, that is reasonable advice. And I don't think that's inaccurate. But manipulating someone else is just a lack of respect and you will never get definite answers anyway. Why couldn't you...

I didn't get upset until you blatantly insulted me. And I did comment on your answer, yes, but I simply disagreed with what you said. I didn't insult you at all. And yet, you continued with your...

If she knew what to do, she wouldn't be asking on this forum now would she? And too much time on my hands? Excuse me? This forum is for helping people and hey, I enjoy doing that. So don't act so...

So instead of calmly approaching her boyfriend and finding out the truth, you want her to fake her way through this? If her friend isn't being genuine, which she probably already realizes by now...

Why use manipulation to find out? Why can't she just ask him upfront? It takes more maturity to be upfront and honest rather than sneak around and try to figure it out.

You have a child. Do you want him to grow up without knowing his father? At the very least, try to make him a father in your child's life. If you want more than that, then you have different concerns.

Well, no contact gave you some sort of security, right? You weren't confused about her anymore, you didn't want to rekindle anything, you were doing just fine. And now, when you broke the NC, you are...

I notice that you changed the post, which is fine, but I just wanted everybody to know that first.

As to your dilemma, I stand by what I said. Why not let her know that you'll try to go there...

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Altruism: the quality of unselfish concern for the welfare of others

Ok, now to you, jadedheart, how is her previous relationship supposed to affect how much she can...

Explain to your boyfriend that you can't trust your friend and then let him decide. But if you don't think that you can trust him, the you should probably break it off before it gets too far down....