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I don't think anyone deserves to be put on the backburner, sorry but life is too short for BS. I understand that people deal with situations differently, but personally if I were going through...

Read JBs post 15 times buddy

Why are you in this situation being engaged? If you're not happy with your fiancée end it, don't stay engaged and get married while your cheating on him.

And why are you involved with a married...

Hi there- You need to stop making excuses for him, he is a grown man and has made a decision, whether it be the right decision or the wrong one, unfortunately you can't decide or control that.

If...

I spent most if not all of my college years in a relationship, sucks that it didn't work out, but better finding out now, than down the road. I would enjoy college as much as possible :) be safe &...

I'm 27 and recently single, I don't think there is a right age to settle down, I think it's more on the person you find, and where you both are in life.

My parents married in their early 20s also

Welcome Italianbella,

I just read your post, and frankly it sounds like you are walking on eggshells with this guy, and that's not healthy. To me it seems like you are doing most of the work in...

Unfortunately that's reality- once the dumper pulls the plug (and keep in mind he has been thinking about this for a while) they don't want anything to do with you. This might change with a lot of...

I don't think you're mind is where it needs to be, you're playing games with yourself focusing everything on her, and what she needs to do in order to "wake up"- not healthy.
She might not be...

Ignore this person completely he doesn't deserve your time. Find someone who will be on your same level, and won't play games with you, which is what this guy is clearly doing.

Give him the cold...

I agree with Starlite, and I commend you for thinking about her situation prior. I am friends with ex's and as long as you know the feelings are just friendly, I say it's cool

You're both married, that should answer your question

I agree 100% he should not chose who you hang out with. The last sentence you said regarding the role they had in the divorce is the catalyst in his insecurities, and they won't be easy to overcome. ...

Have you explained to him the situation with your friends? And do your male friends know about your situation with your husband? There needs to be a line where everyone knows what reality is. Your...

Now you're talking! It's a tough reality to accept, but once you accept it, you can begin to heal. My sister has 3 kids (toddlers) and whenever I felt down, I would drive over there, and it's...

This time around it's been about 2 months, and the feelings seem to come and go. I realized a lot of things/emotions during these last couple months, one of them being, that I did everything...

My 1st love is one of my best friends now (we started dating in HS in 98, dated for the 1st year of college together, but then drifted apart) we tried to get back together a couple times, but it just...

It sucks you have to see him daily, but in a way I think this will desensitize you from him. You WILL reach the day where he is just another person, believe me, and believe yourself. I've been in...

Sounds like to me she is looking for excuses to end it, as Tal, and others mentioned, I would hit the road and find someone that is willing to compromise, without this, it will always end up in...

Hi Nero & Welcome to the forum. I'm sorry you are going through this right now, I can say most of the folks on here have been through similar situations, and we'll do what we can to guide you...

Lesson learned, don't text him ever again, you know he won't reply.

As Tal said, I would turn around and never look back. She is with someone new, and as much as that sucks, it's reality. Sounds like she might be wishy-washy, and the good thing is that her new man...

The feelings will go away, in time. It's up to you how to control your emotions, focus on work while you're there, and that's that. Time heals everything, you'll get through it

You didn't do anything wrong, frankly you could not have prevented this. This was something she had been thinking for a while, no one just wakes up one day and says "hey i want to take a breaK"
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Hi mnolan- sounds to me as TAL mentioned his feelings don't seem to be there. This might be a good time for you to be on your own, this will make the both of you realize if each other is what you...

This is pure lust, nothing else, leave him alone, he is a married man

Hey Wiggy,

I think a lot of us have been where you are right now. And as everyone else has said, every situation is different, but I would be cautious. Personally, I've been in your shoes twice,...

Do you still interact with your ex-husband at all? Any chance of reuninting?

I think you know what you need to do from here on out, and I don't think anyone will tell you that the new man is going to be the wise decision. Your daughters should be your #1 focus, good luck

Welcome "can't breathe" - After reading your post, the 1st thing that came to my mind were your daughters. I think you need to focus on them and yourself, you are putting all of your energy on this...

Amen.

I am sorry to hear about what you are going through mate, believe me when I tell you that you are not alone.

The best thing I can tell you, is essentially what everyone else is telling you, let...

Hang in there Len21- you are strong, and believe me when I tell you that this time in life will make you a stronger person in the long run.

Keep that chin up :)

Hello everyone- new comer, and have spent an extensive amount of time reading pages and pages of posts on here, and I wish I knew about this site years ago! I wanted to share with you my...