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  1. Question: My mom has cancer

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    My mom has cancer

    My mom is dying of cancer. She has been fighting for six months and now her time is short.
    It hurts so bad to know that soon she will be gone.
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    There are a lot of posts here that are dead on...

    There are a lot of posts here that are dead on accurate. I have struggled with weight issues for a long time. You have to change your lifestyle. I was 240 lbs, smoked a pack a day, ate fast food and...
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    NC broke after 8 months!

    Well, first of all...
    I haven't been on the site in quite some time and I would like to take a second and say hello to Tal, Big Bird, Starbuck, Wondergirl, Altenweg, Chuff, and all of the others...
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    Yes it does. I strongly recommend therapy. ...

    Yes it does.

    I strongly recommend therapy. Group therapy is a place to start. AA, NA, and Alanon are all really great groups to try. They don't cost anything and you can meet people like...
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    I have been where you are right now! I think you...

    I have been where you are right now! I think you said that you were 17. I'm 37 and I was just there about 6 months ago. I think a lot of people get to that place at some point in their lives. I...
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    Max, I am suffering with the same issues right...

    Max,

    I am suffering with the same issues right now. All through school and my young adult life, I have been picked on and put down. I am always looking for praise or reassurance from everyone...
  7. Question: Mental health

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    You have nothing at all to be embarrassed about! ...

    You have nothing at all to be embarrassed about! There was something on the television awhile ago that said 1 out of 5 Americans will experience some sort of depression or mental illness in their...
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    Why am I so obsessed?

    I got dumped by the girl of my dreams in April. I completely scared her away. I was moving way too fast and she left. I became totally obsessed with her. Now the obsession is with me. I think...
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    Definitely don't talk yourself into being...

    Definitely don't talk yourself into being mentally ill. Get involved with some healthy things. Medication does help but don't rely on it for a complete fix. Find some stress relievers. ...
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    Therapy and medication

    I went through a bad breakup in April and my life has crashed all around me. I do believe I have had issues with self esteem and depression. I think the breakup was more of a catalyst for this major...
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    All of you are right on target! Please just back...

    All of you are right on target! Please just back off! I just went through a breakup in April.
    She even warned me a few times. We both had similar careers with like schedules that made it even...
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    I am feeling very lonely and depressed.

    Some of you may recognize me from some of my postings on relationships.
    If I look back at my life even just a year ago, I was very active and not feeling so depressed. I own a business that's doing...
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    I daydream all of the time too. I'm going...

    I daydream all of the time too. I'm going through a phase of depression as well. I went through a break up a few months ago and it's been horrible. I daydream about my ex a lot. I'm sure that...
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    I happen to be an avid Black Jack player. Vegas...

    I happen to be an avid Black Jack player. Vegas actually sounds a little better.
    I was just there in May and I heard a lot of chatter on how things were slow .

    Old Vegas / Fremont St. is really...
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    Viva Las Vegas! That sounds great too! I'm...

    Viva Las Vegas!

    That sounds great too!

    I'm in!

    Orlando or Vegas both are good.
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    Does anyone else feel this way?

    It's been 11 weeks since I got dumped. Ups and Downs.
    Anyway, I was at the drag races in New Jersey this weekend and saw some couples holding hands and being close with one another. This...
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    Yes the mornings are definitely worse for me. I...

    Yes the mornings are definitely worse for me. I seem to wake up sometimes in the night with racing thoughts about her also. It's been 8 weeks for me and it feels like yesterday.
    We all just need...
  18. Congratulations! I'm sure this is the happiest...

    Congratulations! I'm sure this is the happiest day of your life. Enjoy your beautiful baby son. You will be a wonderful dad! This is a new beginning for your life.
    Awesome! Life is wonderful, ...
  19. Just Like Tal said... Too much too fast! Burn...

    Just Like Tal said... Too much too fast! Burn and crash!
    Just happened to me two months ago. Don't let infatuation take over. Try to keep a straight sense of direction. It all sounds easy but...
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    This could be an amazing thing! There are a...

    This could be an amazing thing!
    There are a bunch of awesome people on this site.
    How cool would it be to meet everyone face to face? WOW!
    What better therapy can you find?
    What a great time it...
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    I lost track of the get together in Orlando.

    I have been away for a few days. I lost track of the get together. Last I heard it was in Orlando FL. Did this fall apart already? I hope not!
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    Orlando it is! I'm in for sure. Let me know...

    Orlando it is!

    I'm in for sure. Let me know what I can do to help plan or cooridinate.

    October is great for Florida.

    That does give a good amount of time for everyone to prepare.

    Let me...
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    Orlando it is! I'm in for sure. Let me know...

    Orlando it is!

    I'm in for sure. Let me know what I can do to help plan or cooridinate.

    October is great for Florida.

    That does give a good amount of time for everyone to prepare.

    Let me...
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    What could be better to get over a break-up than...

    What could be better to get over a break-up than to plan an event like this?

    And with all of us at the party... WOW!

    Now that would be some serious therapy... Ha Ha
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    That sounds AWESOME! I'm single, got some...

    That sounds AWESOME!

    I'm single, got some cash, very flexible schedule.

    Basically... Pick the dates and place and I will be there!

    Japan, Australia, England, Germany whatever... I'm there....
  26. Does the break-up pain increase as you get older?

    We've been apart for 8 weeks now and she sent me some things I left at her place.
    I'll tell you... It's just like breaking N.C. The misery started all over again last Thurs.
    On top of that... A...
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    Just out of a relationship 8 weeks ago. Same...

    Just out of a relationship 8 weeks ago. Same thing. She was the one and only. Was finally doing a lot better and she broke the NC this afternoon. It's not like starting totally over but it's...
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    How about "It's not you.......It's me." "I'm...

    How about "It's not you.......It's me."

    "I'm not quite over my ex yet." Even though I've been having sex with you for the past 3 months.

    "We should take a break" "So I can get over my...
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    5 weeks and every day seems like an eternity. I...

    5 weeks and every day seems like an eternity. I think of her every minute of the day.
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    Is infatuation that powerful?

    I have known this woman for a few years and have been very attracted to her. We became friends and finally started dating. It all started great! We would talk on the phone a few times a day and...
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    When will this pain end?

    It's been almost 4 weeks since she broke up with me. It seemed to be getting better but now I'm right back where I started. I woke up at 1 a.m. thinking about her and have been awake since. I have...
  32. Question: The NC Calendar

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    Big Bird & Daz T, I'm feeling the same way...

    Big Bird & Daz T,

    I'm feeling the same way today. I have been dreaming of her several times a night. I wake up and lie there thinking of things I want to say to her. Just like Daz... I want to...
  33. Question: The NC Calendar

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    21 days NC 6 days Smoke Free! Still think about...

    21 days NC 6 days Smoke Free!
    Still think about her all day and night!
    We were supposed to go to Vegas next weekend together but after she left I gave her ticket to my best friend instead. I...
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    I'm probably the last person you want to take...

    I'm probably the last person you want to take advice from.
    My Girlfriend broke up with me 3 weeks ago. No remorse... cold hearted... It's over!
    The first two weeks were horrible. Not much sleep,...
  35. Yes, Thank You! I somewhat already know the...

    Yes, Thank You!
    I somewhat already know the answers to my own questions. It just helps when others re-assure me. The hurting is so bad I easily get clouded and it's nice to have you folks to ask...
  36. Has anyone ever thought that it was your true love that slipped away?

    Ive been in several relationships. Some long term and some short. Some women said they were in love with me after a few months of dating and scared me away. I couldn't understand it. Other...
  37. Question: Dating again?

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    Dumped by my girlfriend 12 days ago. Still think...

    Dumped by my girlfriend 12 days ago. Still think about her all the time. Still miss her. I know she's not coming back. I have a date next weekend with an old flame from 10 years ago. Don't know...
  38. Yes! Yes! Yes! This is so very true! I am in...

    Yes! Yes! Yes! This is so very true!
    I am in that spot right now. Known her for a few years, Wanted what I couldn't have it seemed. Finally had a chance to date. So excited... So happy... So...
  39. Question: The NC Calendar

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    This is my 8th NC day. A little easier every...

    This is my 8th NC day. A little easier every day. Weekends are still tough because I'm not working. Plenty of memories lingering in the house. Trying to keep busy and hanging with some friends. ...
  40. Yes. It's happened to me. We started dating! Be...

    Yes. It's happened to me. We started dating! Be careful though, Move slow and ask yourself why you really really like them.
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    Why should I settle?

    Have had a rough road of dating over the past several years. It seems that I either end up with women that I can't fall in love with and break up after a short time, or I fall in love with them too...
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    How fast is too fast to fall in love?

    Met what I thought to be my soul mate 3 years ago. It was love at first site. However, our business relationship prohibited us from dating for a few years. We would see each other on occasion at...
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