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    Bural21 Posts: 190, Reputation: 18
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    Oct 19, 2008, 07:19 PM
    Younger guys.. . Is is common?
    My boyfriend and I are sexually active. And sometimes after intercourse, I don't know if it's my paranoia or what, but he seems just not all there. I was wondering if it's normal, we're both older teens. It's not really negative energy it's just he pays more attention to the TV and/or video games for the rest of the day and the following day he's more himself. Is it possible I just wear him out? And therefore he's just tired all day? Or is something not clicking with him and I?
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    Oct 19, 2008, 07:40 PM
    I don't think you need to worry. Even older males get like this. I suppose they are just 'spent'. Physically and mentally there has just been a massive release and now their thinking capacity is smaller and more simplified. Ever heard guys talking about sex putting them to sleep? Its true!
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    Oct 19, 2008, 10:10 PM

    Yea don't worry about it. Every guy is different it's probably just one of his quirks.

    Their could be more though does he ever feel like he did not do a good job or anything like this?
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    Oct 19, 2008, 11:27 PM

    My dear it's a medical fact that us males do need down time after the rumpy pumpy.

    Its not you its just the way we are :)

    Nothing to worrie about. Maybe play on the Playstation with him?
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    Oct 20, 2008, 12:04 AM

    Im always a little tired but not usually out of it. I guess it differs slighty in everyone.
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    Oct 20, 2008, 05:35 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by TrueFaith View Post
    my dear its a medical fact that us males do need down time after the rumpy pumpy.

    its not you its just the way we are :)

    nothing to worrie about. maybe play on the Playstation with him?
    Hm, good idea... he'd like that I bet, too. :)
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    Oct 20, 2008, 05:37 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by SimpleguyJoe View Post
    Yea dont worry about it. Every guy is different it's probably just one of his quirks.

    Their could be more though does he ever feel like he did not do a good job or anything like this?
    I doubt he feels like he did bad, I can be... very reassuring (to say the least ;)). I think he's tired, I like things a little harder then most. I'll be gentle next time. And maybe stick to it at night?
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    Oct 27, 2008, 07:52 PM

    Today, my boyfriend and I engaged into intercourse and I took TrueFaith's advice and played video games with him after a short nap, he seemed so happy to have my company and asked me to stay for the evening... thank you guys!
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    Oct 27, 2008, 10:10 PM

    Atta girl ;) I am very happy for you both!

    Happy Pawning

    It's a P.S term :P
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