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    May 29, 2004, 12:34 PM
    Why wouldn't it hurt?
    My boyfriend and I are waiting to have sex of any kind (oral, etc) till we get married. In the past, guys I have been with would get turned on and they would claim to hurt, because they couldn't "relieve" the hardness. I asked my current boyfriend, if he hurt, when this occurred. He said no. Is this normal? Why would some guys experience pain and not others?
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    Jun 2, 2004, 08:43 AM
    Why wouldn't it hurt?
    They are all full of sh*t. There isn't any pain from not being able to get relief. And if they wanted it bad enough, they probably just did it by themselves anyway. Don't listen to that bull, it's just something to get you into bed w/ them.
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    Jun 6, 2004, 02:13 PM
    Re: Why wouldn't it hurt?
    Why wud it hurt if dere d**k has gone hard, seems like guys have bin chatting breeze to u, :(
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    Jul 14, 2008, 01:04 PM
    Claiming it hurts is just their way of putting a guilt trip on you to try to make you feel obligated to them to do what you don't want to do.
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    Jul 14, 2008, 01:10 PM
    I agree with N0help... That's a load... Literally.. It doesn't hurt
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    Jul 14, 2008, 01:16 PM
    It hurts when you "mess around" but no ejaculation occurs..
    You get "blue balls" , basically your testicles swell up and until you ejaculate it makes it very difficult to generally walk.. So unless your bf's are referring to that then its BS.
    But blue balls ARE painful.. I've been there several times and it is a pain in the hole.. or testicles... and you have to "manually" relieve the pain :)
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    Jul 14, 2008, 04:36 PM
    Dear Nohel4u, Romefalls19 and nichshehe...

    Hate to put a crimp in your style and great advice, but if you noticed, the date of the last post before your's is from the year 2004. Even though the subject is probably current even today, the Original Poster is most likely over this particular problem.


    At least I hope so...
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    Jul 14, 2008, 08:26 PM
    Lol...
    4 years of blue balls would definitely suck...
    He's probably dead by now.
    NO ONE HAS HELPED HIM!
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    Jul 14, 2008, 08:31 PM
    Have no idea how it came to the top of the board then. It was right on the top when I clicked on the relationship board
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