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daveycool75 · Nov 6, 2007, 03:57 PM

We broke up three months ago. Every time we have hung out it has been touchy and flirty. But I give her compliments much more then she does me. Recently she started dating a guy he is an obvious step down but she seems to be into him. She is quick to rub it in my face. She says she wants to be friends.

So we went out together for halloween she was very flirty holding hands dancing very closely piggy back rides sitting on my lap I took this as a sign she wanted a kiss and I did twice which she did not fight but then she instantly pulled back strongly so I took that as a sign. And the next day asked what made me think that was okay?

Then last weekend we worked together and she was extremely touchy and tickled me a bunch she even bit me twice on the shoulder and arm. The difference is this last time I was really pulling away more then before which seems to make her more aggressive.

This is all very confusing. I have feelings for her and get caught up in it. I feel like I need to cut ties because she seems to just want to keep me on the hook. Also if the new guy saw this behavior he would not be happy. I feel like warning him because even her mom told me she would burn him.

Should I tell her we can't be friends or just lay it out and tell her if she wants to be flirty with me she better be dating me. In all honestly I am way too attracted to her to realistically ever be friends.

kuulski · Nov 6, 2007, 04:01 PM

I would cut her off. She is playing games. NO CONTACT!
If you have to see her Hi and Bye.

shygrneyzs · Nov 6, 2007, 04:05 PM

Quit allowing her to be the flirty tease. She does that because she knows it affects you and she can get the results she wants. Tell her, in no uncertain terms that you are not interested and leave it at that. No more contact, no more Halloween, no more kissing, sitting on your lap, etc. Do you like to be whipped a lot by women? Because that is what she is doing to do. You cannot be friends, not even acquaintances.

Do not call this other guy to warn him - he will not believe you. Sad to say, but he will find out for himself. She will do to him what she is doing to you. Someday all this will fly back at her and she will wonder where her adoring men went. DO NOT stick around to pick up the pieces.