She dumped you because you were not on the mainland
* Something Came Along, Grabbed a Hold of Me, And it Felt Like a Ball and Chain
* Hey There, Mr. Philanderer, Your Is Showing!
* A Heart is the Only Thing That Has Value. If You Have One, Throw it Away
* She Did It My Way - Or Else...
* Forget It! You Never Listen Anyway! You'll NEVER Understand Me At All, Will You?
* Well to make a long story short, and to get right down to the nitty gritty of it... the man
had no pecker
* Norman, What have You Done?
* Wilson! Come baaaaack!
* Agh, Com'n Now Guys... Who Let One Fly?
* Why, I Certainly Am Not Like That - You're The One That..!
Well, If You Don't Know Then I'm Certainly NOT Going To Tell You!
* I Can't See You Anymore, You Drive A Chevy...
* Just What The Hell Did You Mean By That!
* Jeepers, Creepers...
* But if we get much closer I could lose control

She dumped you because you became mundane
* Whatever You Say, Ma'am...
* Oh, You Hurt Me So Good!
* I Love You - Like a Brother...
* Cat? What Cat? I Didn't Know We Had a Cat!
* You should never underestimate the predictability of stupidity
* Take Me NOW!
* Oh, Girls They Want to Have Fu-un

She dumped you because you consumed her
* Calling All Klingons
* Why Change When I Love You For Who I Think You Can Be?
* Of Course I Trust You, Now Tell Me... JUST WHERE THE HELL HAVE YOU BEEN?
* Take On Me!
* It's All Material!

She dumped you because it was the logical thing to do
* You Say Tomato, I Say Tomahto...
* I Love You, John - er, I Mean George...
* I Love You So Much It Hurts!
* Who Wants to Marry a Millionaire?
* I'd Like You Better if I Were Blind!
* You Dirty Dawg, You...
* Relationship Count Downs

Are you controlling, manipulative, or berating?
Some ways we attempt to manipulate and control others and certain situations:
· Manipulation
· Sweetness
· Playing victim
· Niceness
· Forcefulness
· Threats
· Helplessness
· Illnesses
· Tragedies
· Rescuing tendencies
· Addictions
· Neediness
· Pushiness
· Assertiveness
· Hopelessness
· Flattery
· Becoming indispensable
· Financial manipulations
· Martyrdom
· Coercion
· Loyalty
· Total surrender

First anyone who is nice and sweet should never get dumped... Women are vicious when its come to dumping... they don't need a reason.. some of them just dump them... many good movie examples... Happy Gilmore, Fify first dates, Batman Movies, Jane Watson on SpiderMan.
Some of them prey upon easy victims... as not to deal with their crap afterwords. They are worst then the female trantulas... who eat their mates head after doing it with them.. I'm saddend to know this and yet the men are always to blame but in some cases we don't deserve the blame at all... Women love dumping men... its part of their DNA.
Seeing a man miserable makes women happy.

The only reasons I have ever dumped a guy is..

1. I just didn't like him or seen no future with him. I usually figure this out by the 3rd date
2. He didn't treat me very good. I expect to be treated with the same respect that I treat him.
3. He cheated. All bets are off , it's finished, done, no excuses, bye bye.
4. He sucked in the bed.

All good reasons in my book.

The funny thing... is if sex is what you after... sex is what you will get in a relationship... if you expect superman in bed and chose a geek.. what do u think you w ill get?

Sex is part of a relationship and to satisfied your partner you have to be emotionally in tune with them and their needs. In my experience it is the geek like men who are the ones who are willing to learn and the superman who thinks he already knows it all that is unwilling to learn.

Simple Asian disagrees: so what you mean is ? Even if it a nice guy,, sweet, and caring innocent but sux in bed and you have the right to dump him? NO NO

I am an America... no man can buy me, rule over me or own me.
I have the right to dump anyone I please for any reason I please. YES YES


I am woman... hear me roar!

Just having the right to do something, doesn't make it the honorable thing to do in terms of humanity. You have the right to do many things that would make you happy, but for some reason you choose not to do them.

People do not do things because it is a right, they do them out of choice. Some choices show a person's internal make-up and beliefs of what it is OK to do to others. The motivations behind those choices contains the issue a person should be judged on.

I got this by hitting the back arrow till I found it. Could someone please tell me how this is posted one minute and not the next 'cause this is not the first time this has happened.
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Originally Posted by irony121901 Men also have the right to dump women anytime they please for any reason or no reason at all. Men don't have to give reasons too. It's just like a job. The company reserves the right to fire you with or without reason.

It's just that men are seen as jerks for doing the dumping whereas the woman isn't doing anything wrong when she dumps.



I'm not arguing that a man hasn't got as much right to “dump” as a woman dose. I was arguing the “NO NO” thing when YES YES I can.
If I dump you I am going to tell you why, I may sugar coat it a bit but I'm going to tell you. Most men however have a tendency to just disappear off the face of the earth or leave you a message like, “I don't want to see you any more”. We woman need closer, we want to know why… so when a man so causally rips a woman's heart out with out any reason at all we tend to think of him as a jerk.

Bottom line is no one is going to stay with somebody they are not happy with. All of us at some point in our lives are going to be doing the dumping and/or being dumped. Why are we even debating the issue?

When it comes to what we want in life, we make hard choices sometimes, and there is no right or wrong. If your healthy with good coping skills, you deal with whatever you have to. And work for the best. We may get thrown off for a bit, but you survive eventually, and resume the journey.