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    lisa1471 Posts: 181, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 5, 2011, 06:17 PM
    Why are men bold about cheating? Is it to get caught?
    Some guys cheat and don't even freaking care.Just got out of a marriage beginning of the summer and my ex swore up and down that he loved me. Was cheating on me with the same female for long time. Found pics on his cell phone. He always seem to be, not really afraid of me, but I know others are, but when I learned he cheated, and saw pics on his phone I immedietly filed divorce, and he did everything he could to keep me.

    Someone said that maybe he dropped his cell on purpose so you can find out to make me jealous. Let me ask you guys out there. What are the signs when a guy want to get caught cheating. What would be the reason. Now should I even consider taking someone back if they were with the same person for a long time?
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    Oct 6, 2011, 10:52 AM
    Now I am confused, because your other post, https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-...ou-600970.html, says you have been dealing with a sexual partner for a year and a half. Now you are just divorced this summer. Is this the same guy or were you cheating too? :confused:
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    Oct 6, 2011, 12:08 PM
    Yes was using as an example but yes that was my ex but not the sexual partner.My stories don't connect.I'm talking about what my ex did to me, which is the reason why I have a lover because of that.
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    Oct 6, 2011, 08:52 PM
    "I'm talking about what my ex did to me, which is the reason why I have a lover"

    That's the whole prob.

    Who you get with. And why.

    Getting rid of past garbage.

    Live drama free for a while. See how that goes.

    Single.
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