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    lily2635 Posts: 5, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 14, 2012, 05:30 AM
    Why has he suddenly stopped talking to me?
    I have known this guy for over a year. We been seeing each other and been really great I thought. Not sure what's wrong with him but I'm sick of the way he ignores me. Not sure what to do. I like him a lot but, he is taking me for granted. I was okay with the whole thing.

    He has never once offer to go somewhere with me or just go for a walk. I am truly confused of who I am to him. Would like to get through this but I miss him dearly. When I'm home I keep on texting or calling him. How can I get through this?
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    Sep 14, 2012, 05:36 AM
    What do you mean by "seeing each other"? Do you go to movies or out for dinner?

    When does he ignore you?

    You contact him all the time but he never answers?
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    Sep 14, 2012, 05:37 AM
    Moving on is easier said than done but first things first break all contact. If he contacts you ignore it and don't bother messaging him. It almost sounds like he's just trying to keep you around, just in case and as long as you let him, he will. Find someone who cares about you as much as you care about them.
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    Sep 14, 2012, 06:09 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by C0bra_M3nace View Post
    Moving on is easier said than done but first things first break all contact. If he contacts you ignore it and don't bother messaging him. It almost sounds like he's just trying to keep you around, just in case and as long as you let him, he will. Find someone who cares about you as much as you care about them.
    you are so right.
    . I have to be strong. What hurts the most is I know he likes a girl and I play dumb and ignote it. His loaned her one of his car for over 2 months now
    Makes the effort to see her everyday. Help me oh my I am about ready to collapse I so hurt
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    Sep 14, 2012, 06:21 AM
    He doesn't sound like a great boyfriend. What were you getting out of the relationship?
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    Sep 14, 2012, 06:30 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by lily2635 View Post
    you are so right.
    . I have to be strong. What hurts the most is I know he likes a girl and I play dumb and ignote it. His loaned her one of his car for over 2 months now
    Makes the effort to see her everyday. Help me oh my I am about ready to collapse i so hurt
    There is someone out there who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. You can't find that person still attached to this jerk.

    Move on, happiness will find you again.
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    Sep 14, 2012, 07:22 AM
    Should I start dating?
    I know for a fact he will not try and contact me
    Why would guys treat woman like that. I am so feed up with his lies. He avoids my calls and doesn't care about me
    But I am in love with him. I guess love is blind. What should I do?
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    Sep 14, 2012, 07:27 AM
    Ignore him and move on. Don't let someone become a priority in your life if you're only and option in theirs.
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    Sep 14, 2012, 07:31 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by C0bra_M3nace View Post
    Ignore him and move on. Don't let someone become a priority in your life if you're only and option in theirs.
    and he knows how I feel. About him. I think your right. I have put him first and forgotten how to be happy. Still though easier said than done
    Wish me luck
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    Sep 14, 2012, 09:38 PM
    Good luck,and in time you willfind your own happiness without him. Date to have fun,NOT replace what you have lost... or think you have lost.

    I think him out of your life is the best thing that could have happened to you because now you have a chance to meet a better guy. One who is a lot more fun at least.
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    Sep 15, 2012, 07:42 AM
    We do wish you luck. When you meet someone wonderful, let us know.
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    Sep 26, 2012, 12:15 AM
    Coping with current man
    What do I do if my boyfriend had excuse after excuse not to see me or take me out. If his letting a friend of his borrow his car for a long time should I worry?

    Dump him! Dump him! Dump him! Dump him!
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    Sep 26, 2012, 04:04 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by lily2635 View Post
    What do i do if my boyfriend had excuse after excuse not to see me or take me out. If his letting a friend of his borrow his car for a long time should i worry?
    You're still with this guy? Did you not learn anything from your first two questions?
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