I broke up with my ex unintentionally but it happened. We were together for a year, things got weird with us after I moved somewhere before he moved with me. I got insecure and paranoid. I say the break up was unintentional because I said I was done waiting up on him but he chose to take it differently.

He told me I broke his heart then started hooking up with this girl less than a week later. He later accused me of cheating which lead him to believe why I broke up with him. So it made me question him. He started bringing his new girl around and I couldn't take it so I moved back home. I could have stood my ground but I was to depressed to even work.I would text him and message him all the time in the hopes that we wouldn't argue but we always would. Just blame each other. Other times we talk and things are fine or better than fine.

Until a few weeks ago he made the girl his official girlfriend. I found out and was very upset because he told me he was single. He also told me he wanted to be with me but something's had to change. I agreed to his terms as long as he agreed to my demands as well. Anyway I tell him I can't talk to him anymore because he keeps lying. He accused me again of cheating and that's why he did it. But he had told me before I found out that he wanted to hang out because he couldn't stop thinkiing of me. He broke it off with his new girl because they kept getting into it over me. Then he asked me to come visit. Is it a good idea to go?

I did tell him that if he wants to talk or try she cannot be involved anymore because it's not fair to me or her, but is it odd that he wants to see me so soon?

Also I want to add that when we were together we were very affectionate both emotionally and physically. We had very strong connection and we were madly in love. I still love him a whole deal and care a lot about him and his happiness.

The you cheated on me is a game cheaters play. They want to take the focus off them and try to justify their actions. Don't look back go on with your life, you do not need him.

And most likely he broke up with her for other reasons and you are back up girlfiend.

It is best not to go back, there will be issues of past still plus new ex's.

Move on, move on

Is the visit for sex (bad idea) or is the visit to work things out (better idea). Regardless if you two can't stop all the drama games then really what is the point. Try a relationship withou the drama. It is much better.

Guess you didn't learn from the past. So repeat it.