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    Why does my boyfriend keep lying to me.

    Asked Jul 7, 2009, 06:59 AM 10 Answers
    I am 22 years old and have been seeing this guy that is 26 years old for a year and a half we have lived together for a while. But he keeps on lying to me about everything he has blocked me from he's Facebook recently he think I don't know about it. He has all he's ex girlfriends on there and he chats to them. I have seen it. He has also tried to hook up with my best friend she is a very seductive kind of girl. I have confronted him about this thing about my best friend and he says nothing happened and so she says the same.

    He is not very lovable person toward me. Its always been this why. We have broken up loads of time but in a week he runs back to me. And I take him back. He also doe's not like to be told what to do and if I have a problem with him that I would like him to improve on and I talk nicely to him he puts up a brick wall. He is a big flirt as well sometimes he is cute and good to me but rarely. I do love him very much. Please help me I don't know what to do. Please!!

    Last edited by talaniman; Jul 7, 2009 at 09:38 AM.
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    jmw0713 Posts: 1,012, Reputation: 305
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    Jul 7, 2009, 07:10 AM

    Time to stick to your guns and make the break-up permanent. This guy treats you like dirt and you take it.

    So much for having a little self-respect and dignity.

    You don't deserve they way he treats you. He goes around and does all of this crap, and you take him back thinking you will change him or that he will change on his own. He is getting to the point in his life where he will continue this behavior for a long time. He has shown you how he feels about you, through his actions.

    Kick his @ss to the curb for good and don't look back. The chances of you changing him are zero!

    Find some one who treats you how you want to be treated. Not some jerk like this guy!
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    Jul 7, 2009, 07:16 AM



    A better question would be:

    "Why do you keep associating yourself with a cheater?"

    Have more self-respect. Leave this guy behind and move on with your life.
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    Jul 7, 2009, 09:28 AM

    Just from reading the question alone, it's pretty obvious he's a retarded monkey with no thumbs.

    Do yourself a favor and completely break away from him. Seriously. You deserve SO much better than that.
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    Jul 7, 2009, 09:42 AM

    You better figure out why you stay with a boob, and allow yourself to be treated bad, and do something about it. After you kick him to the curb.

    Your not happy so what's the point?
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    Jul 7, 2009, 09:45 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by miss guess View Post
    he is not very lovable person toward me.
    Then WHY are you with him? Time to get rid of this loser.
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    Jul 7, 2009, 09:47 AM

    Because you keep letting him.

    Plain and simple.

    Do yourself a HUGE favor and dump this dude. You've been together for a year and a half so its okay if you still love him. But you have to love yourself enough to NOT put up with this kind of sh**.
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    Jul 7, 2009, 09:47 AM
    This is a pointless relationship.

    Quote Originally Posted by miss guess View Post
    please help me i don't know what to do. please!!!!!
    You have to leave, there's really nothing else to do.
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    Jul 7, 2009, 10:00 AM

    Well, you can stay with him and continue to be treated like crap and lied to and cheated on, or you can move on and find someone who LOVES you enough to treat you like a queen.
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    Jul 7, 2009, 10:09 AM

    OK... this guy can't break up with you. He is trying to to feel better about himself and keep you just to have you even though he doesn't loke you or love you. If it was a relationship he wouldn't block you and treat you like garbage./ I think you should make it clear to him that this relationship will not work. Good luck
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    Jul 7, 2009, 11:02 AM
    He keeps lying to you, because you let him. He chats with all his ex-girlfriends, and he cheats, lies and lives with his current girlfriend. Would you rather be the ex-girlfriend, or the current girlfriend? You love him because he's cute and rarely good to you. If you are asking for help, I'd suggest you be the ex-girlfriend.
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