My boyfriend and I have been dating a little over a year, and we have been living together for a little over 4 months. He never wants to go out with me anywhere... If he amazingly says lets go to the movies, il have to check a calendar and make sure I didn't miss an anniversary. All he does is go out with his friends, gets drunk, and won't come home till 7 or 8 the next morning. He doesn't allow me to have myspace or Facebook, I basically have no friends because he doesn't even allow me to go to the corner by myself. He doesn't allow me to go to school, or get a job (he says moneys fine and I don't need one). He says he is the way he is because he worries about me and wants to keep me safe. But is that really the reason? Ive tried to leave him a few times before but he always changes the story to make it seem like its my fault. I tell him its not working he degrades me and says I just want to be single and party which is not true. Honestly I'm scared to leave, he's threatned me before but I don't want this to be a police matter. He says if I leave and he ever ran into me anywhere and I'm with another man he would kill him (I hope he doesn't mean literally. I just don't know what to do anymore... All advice helps! Thanks