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    pokcm Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Mar 28, 2008, 06:53 AM
    Why does my B/F want die?
    I been with my b/f 2 years now and we not been getting along at all!


    So I think its time we went our diff ways But he doesn't take it well and treatens to kill himself and I take him back because I don't want him do it


    What can I do stop this?
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    Mar 28, 2008, 07:14 AM
    This is his way of controlling you and keeping you in the relationship. He isn't going to kill himself. I had a friend that said the same things to his girlfriend when she wanted to break up with him. Guess what he is still here and she is married to a different guy.
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    Mar 28, 2008, 08:50 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by pokcm
    I been with my b/f 2 years now and we not been geting along at all!


    So i think its time we went our diff ways But he doesn't take it well and treatens to kill himself and i take him back cos i dont want him do it


    what can i do stop this?
    I think you should leave if you don't get along, it's not going to get better. He'll live without you, don't fall for his lies!
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    Mar 28, 2008, 08:53 AM
    He knows he can control you with that threat. Break the cycle, and leave and find your own happiness. You are not responsible for his actions, as he will do what he wants. Right now he doesn't want you leaving this dysfunctional, unhealthy relationship, and that is his problem, not yours.
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