I met a man and we dated for sometime.. after 3 months he told me he has a kid.. though he had told me he was separated... he hid the fact that he had a child... after two years when I asked him where our relationship was going.. he said he wudnt ever get married... after 4 and a half yrs he said he wudnt divorce his wife.. by the had taken loads of money from me. Since, his company was not doing too well.. I had given him money to help him manage his wife and kids.. cos his wife was non working and he was paying them. I finally decided to break up with him.. cos I realised if I don't I would land up in greater mess.. I have two kids and a finance professional.. I was quite upset when he told him that he wudnt ever divorce his wife.. because he did mention on and off that he was working on his divorce.. I paid his emi for his houseing loans... and suddenly I am nicely duped.. he is a libran, what do I do now..

Let me see you started by dating a married man, where else can it go wrong.

If he is married and dating, odds are he will never get divorced, sadly in love people will believe the lies. They do 100's of times a month on here.
You set a strict set of rules in dating, have questions before you date.

Are you married would be first.

As for as having a child, I doubt I would tell a date either unless asked exactly, till a month or two, since I would not want child part of it, at the early part.

And for most it would not be. A dating issue anyway