I am 45 years old... I have been dating a man for 8 months... we are in love and plan to get married... my problem is that I am extremely suspicious and feel like he is not honest with me... I saw a Facebook message he sent to a woman he has been friends with since elementary school telling her that he loves her... always has and always will and that she is the most beautiful woman in the world... I can't let it go... he doesn't know that I know and now I feel like he is doing all sorts of things without my knowing... I might add that my father cheated on my mother after 32 years of marriage with my mothers best friend... I was 11 years old at the time... I don't like being/feeling this way... how can I control this issue of mine?