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Babs77 · Sep 17, 2012, 11:38 AM

I'm 28 yrs old and single. I met a guy Wen in school, 7 yrs elder to me and he promised me to marry. We had a good relationship. After 4 yrs I understood he has done the same to other gals too and I broke the relationship. Then my college mate proposed me after listening to my story and he was too loving but his love turned to doubtful character. Each day I should keep proving him Wat I didn't do. He finally broke the relationship and I pleaded to him for 2 yrs but he left. Both are married now.

After all tis one of my close friend came into my life and I knew he likes me a lot. He was waiting for me for 10 yrs. He promised tat he Will never leave me as the others did. N Will never give me pain. We had a good relationship for 4 yrs. But now he is denying to get married because I might die if we both get married as said by the astrologer. Also their parents are against his decision. From past two months he s asking me to change my mind and marry someone else. I am tired explaining but he s adamant. He believes in astrology. I have no strength to fight back or change my mind.

What is my mistake... Why always me... What should I do now

C0bra_M3nace · Sep 17, 2012, 11:45 AM

First of all, not "all men have some excuse to escape". There are plenty of guys out there, just because you found two in a row that can't commit doesn't mean we're all like that. Keep your chin up and you'll find someone who will sweep you away for the rest of your life. Just don't let those two guys get you down, because not all men are like them.

joypulv · Sep 17, 2012, 11:49 AM

What country are you in that someone would go by an astrologer?
What does 'Each day I should keep proving him Wat I didn't do' mean?
I can't tell if you had sex with them or not - did you say no sex before marriage?
You mention school, and that often sends people off in different directions, because of careers and moving or more school elsewhere.
It's possible that there is nothing wrong with you, and you just had a string of bad luck with 3 men. It does sound like you drag out hope too long, such as pleading with the second one for 2 years, and trying to get this recent one to change his mind! The first 2 sound like they weren't right for you anyway, but now the 3rd one is keeping with family tradition, and you have to accept it and move on.

Babs77 · Sep 17, 2012, 12:00 PM

Hello... Thanks for your reply... Its very hard to go on wit such failures.. The last guy was the only hope I had but even he is not able to understand me.