Moved to its on thread.

My story isn't any special that other stories but there is something that I want to share. I'll keep it short and sweet...

I knew this girl who I used to hang out ( just friends ) and after a while of not seeing each other I said hy on Y!M and after a few minutes she asked for my phone number and I gave it to her , 5 minutes after I gave her the number she called and she said we should go for a drink... we did and the thing is that night she ended up as my GF. After 3 weeks of dating , out of nowhere she broke all contact with me... I tried to call , text , everything but she won't contact me back... after 3 days from not hearing from her I send her a message saying that I will no longer try to contact her ( that was 3 weeks ago ). So it came to 3 weeks of NC and in this time I searched the internet for a possible answer of her behavior ( this is how a found this forum). Here comes the shocking part :

Yesterday @ 10 am I hear my cell phone ringing and I didn't recognize the number and answered and there she was... asking to meet her... and I accepted... so we meet later that night. I didn't expect much because I wasn't in love with her , but still it bugged me why the mood change and I asked her WHY ? And you will not believe what she said...

She said that she is falling in love with me and this is affecting her grades and the other things in her life and she is very sorry and wants a second chance.

After hearing what she said I start feeling disgusted , for a moment there I had an urge to punch her lights out (I do not know why) but I manager to keep myself under control and I said to her that I will call her in 2 days and give her an answer. What do you think I should do ? Tomorrow night... Should I give her another chance or should I say no and start NC ?

P.S. : I care about this girl to a certain extent , but I do not love her... yet . I think..

I don't believe the part "it's affecting her grades in school" that is pure BS, I mean what is she 15 years old?
Second, when they disappear for 2 or 3 weeks, it is possible there was another guy and it did not work out, so now she is contacting you.

Give her a taste of her medicine, play hard to get like she did, if you go to all the meetings she requests and do whatever she wants, she going to manipulate you. Don't be a wussy, be a man and make yourself a challenge to her, so every time she will be with you , she will see it as a privilege and won't take you for granted.
It is said : "Give her the gift of missing you and she will respect you more".

You don't have to folow what I say, but it has worked for me.
Good luck dude.

I was thinking the same thing.

How old are both of you? Is she in school? Could she have been spending time with you that she should have used for studying?

If you want a serious relationship, communicate WITH her.

Don't play games. Be honest that you don't want to be a toy she plays with when she wants. Don't turn her into a toy that you play with when you want.

Listen to each other as well as each of you getting out your own concerns and feelings.

Work together or don't even try.

I would be really worried dealing with a partner who disappears instead of explaining her needs. Not a good sign. That would have to change for anything to happen, as far as I was concerned.

Her words say love, but her actions don't.

The fact that the things she said disgusted you,and you fought the urge to punch her lights out,would say to me leave this one alone and walk away, you don't love her and it would seem that she irratates you too much.

A little anger management would not go astray.

My advice... walk away.