K I have a problem me and this guy went out for 5 months and 2 and a half months ago we broke up iafter we broke up we continued to see each other and talk but things got hard he told me he was over me and we stopped all contact about 3 weeks later he calls me just out of the blue calls me I wasn't able to answer it but I talk to him and he sayed he called but he forgot what he wanted to ask so one day we were talking on msn and he was putting lyrics to a song but it had a meaning like one said " i had a good girl once you dont understand how hard it is to find someone like you intil shes gone " then send the voice clip I don't know if he was trying to tell me something or what?? We desided to chill so today he came over he sent me a text asking if he could see me so I said sure he came over and we were waching step up and he put his hand at the side of my leg like he was waiting for me to hold it well I did and the next thing I knew we kissed and were on the floor making out well me and him have a lot of ummm inapropriate history and it lead to dry sex but I couldn't let it go any further he told me he still likes me and after all this time still thinks about me but wasn't sure if he loves me anymore is he holding back?? Well he desided to leave he had to meet his best friend so I let him go but leaving he told me he would maybe see me on the weekend and gave me a good bye hug no kiss which left me connfused is he using me or does he actually still care about me just is scard to go back out with me because the last time we broke up it was pretty emotional he did dump me and he cried too so I'm just needing some help

How old are you two?

Were 16

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Iam so happy you stuck to your guns ans didn't go all the way with him.. It could be nothing or could be everything.. Your only 16 maake sure you stand your ground about your beleifs and don't ever let anyone push you into anything you don't want to do..
Remember sex changes everything it's a big decision to make. I don't want to be negative but you know what most guys want but there are a few great guys out there that would never push you and would respect you..

Take care

Be careful, don't go all the way with him until you 2 are ready in a good relationship and older. Imagine if you did go all the way, how much worse you would be feeling now! Give time, if he cares he will call and work things out. You guys are young, and young love is very hard. Go out with you friends and study school. He seems to be unsure of the situation, let him be, its not fair to you.