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    Mgoblue1987 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    May 24, 2011, 01:04 PM
    What should I do about my ex-gf?
    Well first off we dated for 6 months which doesn't seem like a long time but still. When we first started talking we became great friends. We had sex pretty much right away and after that everything was getting increasingly better. We became closer and closer, to the point that we were so open with each other that we would just say and do whatever we wanted around each other. We both have weird/funny sense of humors so we would just build off each other. We would be very intimate with each other and always show our affection towards one another. She even became very close with my mom and they still always talk even after we broke up, which was in Feb. She even said she loved me first, and we knew everything about each other, we were basically the same people we never even fought once.

    But come February we were talking and she started to say that things didn't feel right because we were so close, best friends rather. And on the 4th we hung out which was the last time I saw her and kissed her. Then the next day she said she didn't know what she was thinking and realized I was the best thing for her because I treated her so good. But the next day comes she completely switched back to her original thinking.

    That night we decided to take a break which I didn't really want but whatever. 2 days go by and then we talk and then she breaks up with me, it all happened so fast. 3 months have passed and we still talk every now and then and we just reminisce of all our good times. I asked her if she wanted to hang out sometime but she says she thinks its going to be awkward but when we were dating nothing was awkward for her at all. I don't want to push her to like me again but it's the only girlfriend I've had that I've held so close to my heart.

    Mind you I am 24 and she's almost 20. I just don't know what else to do, she still contacts my mom on Facebook all the time. Advice?
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    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
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    May 24, 2011, 04:25 PM

    You have to leave her alone for a while guy as the intensity came and went, now you are friends with memories. She came to her senses before you did, but eventually, if you do other things besides letting her reminisce old feelings, you to will accept that the feelings are gone and let them fade.

    Takes time my young friend, and she got deeper under your skin, than you did her.
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    May 24, 2011, 09:27 PM
    Yes just give her time and she will come around the reason why she is saying it's akward is because maybe she doesn't want to date you and she thinks that when u guys hang out it would be similar to when you were dating. Give her space let her come back to u she's still young so I don't know maybe she wants to live life on her own for a bit not want something so serious. Sorry bro I know it hurts but let her be for now.
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    Mgoblue1987 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    May 25, 2011, 10:29 AM
    Thanks a lot I appreciate it guys. Deep down I will never give up butw just going to back off and let her do what she does.

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