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    Aug 21, 2017, 12:08 AM
    What should I do?
    I told this girl I had a crush on her, but ran before I got her reaction. I will see her on Thursday. How should I do to approach her and talk to her?
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    Aug 21, 2017, 12:20 AM
    How old are the two of you?
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    Aug 21, 2017, 07:33 AM
    Both of us are teens
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    Aug 21, 2017, 08:13 AM
    You gave her space to think about what you said and to consider whether your feelings are reciprocated. I would take her aside and talk to her in private. You dropped a huge emotional bomb on her and ran.

    This is something that can be life altering to be honest, and it probably didn't portray your intentions and feelings well by running after you told her. I would be prepared for the let down of her not feeling the same way about you as you do about her. The problem you're most likely going to need to contend with is how to recover your friendship if such a thing is possible.

    A piece of advice, if you're going to tell a woman that you've got a crush on her, stick around for her reaction and deal with the outcome then and there. You'll be seen as a more mature and responsible person. Good Luck.
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    Aug 21, 2017, 08:53 AM
    Are you 13 or 18? The answers will vary according to your ages.
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    Aug 21, 2017, 10:38 AM
    We are both 13.
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    Aug 21, 2017, 02:48 PM
    First apologize for laying this on her all of a sudden, and being a chicken about it. Then man up and ask her what she thinks and this should be between the two, with no one else around.
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    Aug 21, 2017, 02:50 PM
    According to my friend's emails, everyone knows about it.
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    Aug 21, 2017, 02:59 PM
    You're just going to have to man up, and talk to her, and see what she says. Running away helped nothing, but see this through anyway. Finish what you started.

    Good Luck.

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