Originally Posted by
shopaholic
I dont want him to cheat on her
He already has cheated on her!
Shop,
Take a second and think: Why would he leave his girlfriend when he doesn't have to? He stays with his girlfriend
and has you on the side.
Your first mistake was making yourself available to someone who is not available to you. It was not only disrespectful to his girlfriend but also shows the lack of respect you have for yourself.
That being said, you are in control here. Give him an ultimatum and let him know that he has to make a choice (unless you want to be the 'other woman'). Trust me, he is not going to leave unless you force him to make a choice. Then you will also get your answer to the question, you asked:
Originally Posted by
shopaholic
i dont know whether his excuse is just an excuse and he wants me as a bit on the side?
How can you loose a friend by asking them to show you more respect? If you loose him as a friend because you asked him to show you the respect to make you his girlfriend, and not someone to cheat with, then he wasn't much of a friend to begin with, was he?