Hey everybody. I just want to talk to somebody, even if it's not a specific person. I fell in love with a guy, I truly did. We met more than two years ago. First we were just friends, we talked a lot, he understood me like no one did, we could talk for hours and about anything. We live far from each other, in different countries, if it weren't for this, I would have come to him long time ago. He would say he loved me too, that I was his soulmate, best friend, love of his life. He talked about marriage and kids. And he told me he would definitely come to me. After almost a year, I found out he had a girlfriend and it was a serious, long-lasting relationship. I was hurt, I was depressed, I felt so empty and miserable I'd never felt before. Why did he lie to me while every single word I said to him was true. We stopped talking for almost a year. 10 months later he called me and said he still loved me and wanted to be with me. A couple of months later he said he told his girlfriend about me and that he was going to move in with me, he said they broke up. Later I found out it was a lie too. I still love him, even though he broke my heart. I don't have enough courage to break up with him but I can't stand being lied to. I just want to know, what makes a man do such horrible things? Please, comment, I need to know your opinions of this situation.

He's just playing with two girls at a time. And you are helping him equally to cheat on his girlfriend. If you do not have the courage to break up then find one from somewhere, because this person is a cheat and you'll never be happy with him and his lying habits.

Break up is not an easy way, but it's still the best way to go.

You have given your heart to one that doesn't deserve it, and you are helping him cheat. That's not love, its dependence. You have given this lying cheater enough, now take it back and have no more contact with him. He has already led you down a miserable path, and no doubt you need to stop allowing it. Listen to your heart no more, it lies also. Instead use your common sense to save you, and do what's right or you will forever be miserable, and cheated on.

Its hard, and disappointing, but you must let this online love and his sweet lies forever alone. You can do better.

Your in a similar situation to many of my friend's past heartbreaks. The road to a healing heart is to break this connection you have with him. I know its probably going to be the hardest thing that your going to do, and its probably going to be difficult, but once you break it off, and give time for yourself, you'll find single life to be fun, and less stressful. You could open your heart to another who might live closer and you guys can have an open honest relationship, but right now you need to think about you, and what will make you happy. At the time this guy might make you happy but the end isn't going to be, you need to be with a guy that you know will make you happy and you know FOR SURE that you guys will have a happy ending.
Hope this helps! :)