Hi, last year I was hanging with this guy I didn't like him I just had got out of a bad relationship. So I use to go out to dinner with him but I was always on my phone talking to and texting other guys, because like I said I didn't like him, anyway we started hanging out more and more, then I found out he wasn't that bad, he had started growing on me, but I still had my guy friends. So we started sleeping together, always together, so one day I was on my cell phone talking to one of my guy friends and he said you with your boyfriend, I didn't no we were a couple. OK time passes everything is going good, and I cheated with my ex, I don't know if he knows, but I think he has a feeling. So we get through that. In jan/2009 things start to take a turn for the worse, he stopped answering my calls, he stopped calling me and on top of that he called me and wished me a happy birthday (and it wasn't my birthday). So I told him its over. I didn't talk to him for a month, I wouldn't answer my phone, so he called my daughter phone to try and find me.So in feb/2009 he finally got in touch with me, so we slept together, after that I didn't talk to him for a week he didn't call me, I didn't call him. Then he called me a week later, so we slept together again, then he told me he still in love with me, I laughed at him, then went and got my number changed.cause I knew he was lying. I didn't talk to him until mar. 19,2009 he got in touch with me through email. So he asked me can he see me I said yes then he told me something personal about his daughter so we went out hung out for a while, I asked him did he want me to take care the business with his daughter since he couldn't get off work, so I took off work , we went back to his house , we slept together, so the next day I went and took care of the business with his daughter. I saw him Friday and he said thank you, I haven't heard from him since he hasn't called me and I haven't called him, 25 % of me want to be with him but I'm scared. 75% of me wants to walk away cause I feel like he's just using me for sex, and he dating someone, and I want to do it right this time with someone new and learn from my mistakes. What should I do?

What should you do?:

Learn how to keep your legs shut!

Read your post and figure out the best plan of action. It isn't that hard to develop some common sense, so when you do that, you should have a clear understanding of what you NEED to do!

Sorry to be harsh!

Damn! Kc you beat me to it. All I kept getting out of that post was, he calls I spread he goes away, he calls I spread, he goes away. That's all I can get out of it.

Keep them closed and stop taking his calls

No you're not being harsh, but because I still wanted to be with him I thought I would ask an see what an ousider thought about it before I made my final decision.
Thank you for your input

Walk away are you nuts?

This isn't a relationship, it's a little more that a f*** buddy with about the same respect levels.

Since all you both do is use each other, break the cycle, and leave each other alone.