I have been in a relationship for almost 3 yrs. He was married when we met. He lied to me at the beginning, he was also lying to his wife. His mother covers for him and lies to me while smiling in my face. He drinks and lies, starts fights with me, tonight he said he was playing cards. He said he wasn't drinking and doesn't want to mess up our relationship so he won't drink tonight. The next time I talked to him I could tell he was drinking. I was so angry that he lied to me yet again, but then he turned it around and said I was the bad person. I am so tired of these games, it seems like whenever things start going pretty good between us and I let my guard down he Slams me yet again. The only problem is I am so insecure and afraid of being alone that I always go back to him and it starts once again. The cycle is about once a month of him kissing up to me and then I get comfortable , then he does something else to betray my trust. I am tired tired tired of this. Please any suggestions will help.

What should you do?: Immediately, find the nearest exit, and abandon ship...

This cycle carries on as long as you let it. This is YOUR life, so do not LET him screw it up for you. He doesn't deserve to have that much power.

Get out, Don't walk... RUN!!


Get away from this manipulative and abusive relationship it can do NO GOOD!!!