So I've been talking with this guy for a couple of weeks. Everything just seems to be going great. Too great that it seem too good to be true. He's a great guy and we have a lot in common. He has qualities that I like. At first I was hesitating because I don't usually go after african american(not that I'm racist or anything) but I gave it a shot because he was different. And when you like someone a lot sort of, color didn't matter. He's educated, smart, unique, he rides dirt bikes, played hockey & football. He even plays guitar for a rock band.

But like I was saying. After couple of weeks the texting and seeing each other just kind of stopped. And I just don't really understand why. I thought things were going well.. I thought maybe he does like me? Because if he didn't he wouldn't tell me where he lives or invites me over(he lives with his dad). And I wasn't the one who put a move on him or anything. He put on the moves(I guess its typical for guys?). He asked me couple weeks ago to go check out his band play in Boston which I agreed to. But now its like I don't even know if he wants me to go. I decided I'll go anyway because I already gave him my word and I don't like to go back on what I said. So I'm just going to watch them play and leave.
I just feel like he's avoiding me.. or maybe he's just too busy with everything? But it only takes like 2 second to text me a hello like before.
It just annoys me that this always happens to me.. maybe its me? Or them? It's not like I'm this obsessive person.

So what should I do? Wait? See how everything plays out? Or should I just go on with my life? Address him about it? Try the NC thing?
Any suggestions would be great.. thanks.

Nothing is wrong yet. Just keep moving forward. Since you two are just friends, don't stop keeping your eye out for other dating options, either. It's all good.

Don't over think any of this. If you two don't end up together (the usual result of most dating endeavors), no need to be all dramatic about it, is there? Let him be him, you be you, and if it all comes together, awesome.

If not, that's going to be OK, too. Right?

Yeah things will be fine eventually... I'll give it a week..
Thanks!!

I completely agree with JB. Don't over think. You just like him a lot you have this expectations of "what an interested person will do". Well, control those thoughts. Just enjoy the whoel thing. Anyway it's still early.

Good idea.

I'll steal talaniman's quote here, "Never make a person a priority in your life, while allowing them to make you an option in theirs."

If he isn't going to take the time out for your, then why do it for him? Why go to his concert, when he can't say hello? Why take time out of your day to text him, if he isn't going to bother. Spend your time on someone that wants to spend their time on you.

Thanks a lot... so far so good!. :)