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Sounds to me like you guys are moving BEYOND TOO FAST here, and I think that's why you are having problems. What is making this such a rush? Honestly, it doesn't really sound healthy at all. SLOW WAY WAY DOWN, take a breath for the love of God!! I see people get into these types of relationships all the time, and they never end up well.

No need to get defensive, and I tried to answer your question. Maybe there is some sort of language barrier that I can't understand what you are asking, but I think you are asking too much of this guy too soon. It seems he is great to you and your kids, and arguments are going to happen. If I'm not mistaken, you have only actually SEEN each other for a little while now, and it seems he is under a lot of pressure. If you don't want my advice, that is OK, but I'm only trying to help you.

You are putting a TON of hope and prayers into this guy so soon, and it just seems to me you are setting yourself up to be let down. I don't think anyomne can tell you how to not get in little fights, those happen.

Maybe try talking to him about what is going on a little more. It seems to me you guys talk A lot to each other, so I don't understand how this is any different. You guys have a relationship that is almost 100% communication, so talk to him.

Without being able to comment on your relationship, I'm not really sure how else to help.

Sorry jeffatl if I snapped at you its just my son is going through the terrible 2's and he's bin reckin myhead the last 2days he has stressed me out [he doesn't usually get to me] and I appoligise for taking it out on you.

But other than myboyfriend saying I'm stressin,moanin,and critasizin him when I wasn't,everythin else is perfect he doesn't do it all the time I think its more when he's tired

But thanks anyway