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    county574 Posts: 7, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 28, 2008, 06:25 PM
    What is she thinking
    Hey here is what I got me and my g/f broke up a little over a month ago we were together for 2 years... everything was great we had went and picked out and engagement ring a week before she broke with me.. the entire break up came as a real big shock to me I had no idea it was coming... she said at first that she just wanted a break then she said her feelings had changed a while back and that she just thought we should be friends I really think she was just saying a bounch of crap because at first I wouldn't leave her alone about it all I mean I was heart broken... anyway she has been hanging with this guy for a little while now wich by the way nothing but scum.. but anyway I finally took everyone's advice after a couple weeks and stopped callling her and texting her and started giving her space... well about a week ago I had a date with this girl nothing serious but just to hang out to get my mind off her.. well when I was with this girl my ex little sister seen us together and told my ex.. but anyway about a week after that my ex has started texting me asking me how my family was doing and all because when we had broke up I had a lot going on with my family some sick some pregnant and one sick pregnant aunt... but since the break up this is the first time she has asked about them, then the next day my sister went into labor and I wanted her to know so I text her and told her... and every time I have talk to her she has been so nice a lot different then she was right after the break up.. today she wanted to come see the new baby at my sisters house and since that she has called me asking me a few questions nothing to do with the relationship but she called me acting very nice... well anyway here our my questions some people have told me that they think she has realized what she might have messed up... and some our saying not to get my hopes up because this might be just her way of showing me she might just wanta be friends? Please any advice or help with this would really help
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    enjay22 Posts: 35, Reputation: 3
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    Jun 28, 2008, 07:07 PM
    2 things.
    1- I think that she's not SURE of her decision. I think she's second guessing herself, and seeing you might bring back those feelings. Trust me, after 2 years.. it doesn't JUST END. There's going to be some on and offs. She probably needed to see a few other guy's to see if u really are the one. I think the engagement ring might have freaked her a bit.
    2- You two probably went through a lot together over the 2 years, and u probably still have a lot of attachment to each other, I doubt she's ready to loose you 100%. So, this could be her way of just.. keeping u in her life.

    good luck, and remember through it all, if it's meant to be, it'll work out.
    give her space, let her come to you.
    because, trust me, in time, she will.
    I promise!
    =]
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    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
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    Jun 28, 2008, 08:22 PM
    well when I was with this girl my ex little sister seen us together and told my ex.. but anyway about a week after that my ex has started texting me
    Funny what makes people tick. She dumped you and you date and she finds out now she is trying to get back in your life.

    Don't hurt yourself, as I have seen exes comeback long enough to mess you up with a new girl, and dump you again.

    Better take a lot of time to think this over, before you jump in head first, and to deep!

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