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053188 · Aug 25, 2008, 08:45 AM

Hi guys, Let me tell you about my dilema..

On Friday night I looked through my boyfriend's phone and I saw a text conversation between him and a "girl" friend.
He asked her if she wanted to meet up somewhere. She said sure and apparently they met at a park next to his house..
I confronted him about that and he swore nothing happened, that she is just a friend and they just wanted 2 talk... He apologized millions of times and swore it will never happen again because he loves me, I'm the only one he wants in his life.

This bothers me a lot, and I don't know what to do. If I stay with him I will never forget what he did.Maybe he didn't cheat(idk) but he still went to see her.It is really disrespectful, and it hurts..

Anyone has an opinion?. what should I do? How do I handle this?

Romefalls19 · Aug 25, 2008, 09:12 AM

What is also disrespectful is you went through HIS phone. So while you claim you can never forget what he did, I wouldn't forgive my girlfriend for going through my phone. It's incredibly childish, no relationship can last without trust.

He is also at fault to, if you can forgive him you have to drop this. If you can't then it's best you let it go now.

Ivory0921 · Aug 25, 2008, 10:13 AM

True, it is VERY hard to forget what he did. If you decide to stay with him then you must promise yourself that you will never bring this up again. Forgive and FORGET for the sake of you relationship. And next time, try not to invade his privacy by checking his fone, his emails or anything to that effect - you're only giving yourself something to worry about - which in your case is a perfect example. Just trust.