Hi, I'll make it brief. I went to a tattoo parlor 2 do a cover up of my exhubby name on my arm. The artist was professional. I had 2 come back for him to finish and I seem 2 have fell under his spell. Its been 2 weeks and he doesn't return my calls or texts. What's up? He is smooth and has a lot of females flocking around his store. He came 2 my house 1nce. Nothing happened. I am probably moving 2 slow for him. We kissed yesterday for the 1st time. I was floating on cloud 9. He was supposed 2 have come 2 my house after work. He did tell Me he was tired... still he didn't call or text 2 cancel! What is this about? I am attractive and successful. I haven't had sex since Nov. 2008. I am backed up. What can I do 2 hook this 29 year old, gemini artist?

Thank you, I am so frustrated, feeling toyed with and discouraged.

Open petal35

Hi, open petal35!

I'm assuming that you got divorced. Is that correct? If so, how long has it been since you've been divorced? If you weren't divorced, then I apologize for being assuming. But then, how long has it been since you were with your exhubby, please?

Thanks!

do me a favor, openpetal35, go back and try to read your letter as if someone else wrote it. my gut reaction is leave this guy alone. you said you're attractive and successful -- you don't need this guy to make you "whole". also, he is smooth and always has girls hanging around him? do you wanna be a groupie? you are young with so many possibilities, don't get stalled in neutral with this guy! good luck!

p.s. as far as no sex since November, get yourself some toys and don't announce to dates that little fact about yourself!

I agree, don't go into a relationship just looking for sex. That will damage your image and self-worth.