I liked this one particular girl whom I had been chatting online with we stopped talking for a few days because I told her that it's best if we cut the conversation that we had cause she's already cutting me off in the way she replies like she always make the conversation dry like she doesn't want it. So I suggested we'd rather end it. After that, she confessed that she has been seeing someone new since we haven't spoken for a while but I already kind of knew that since she's not that hard to love. Damn I loved that girl so bad but we both know that we can't stay from the very beginning we still risked it though. She told me that the new guy she was dating read our chats and that she didn't know what to say about me to the new guy and that if the new guy found out that we were talking again recently he'd probably be angry at her for it. I don't know what she is trying to imply here.

I reached out to her again cause I wanted to apologize for not giving her closure. She got mad at me without telling me what the problem was cause she was like assuming I'd figure it out by myself. But we ended ghosting each other cause she'd always cut me off every time I start a conversation and I didn't figure out what the problem was I thought she got tired talking to me.

So a few days after we stopped talking, she talked to me first and I was wondering why her name popped up on my phone. She asked me if I still wanted to be friends with her cause I was fun to talk with and she really enjoyed my company according to her. And I said that her question is for her since I'm the one who's always suggesting we should be friends but she didn't want to at first cause as per her "i broke her trust" even though I had no idea what she was getting mad about that led me to think that she didn't want to talk to me anymore hence the ghosting part occurred. And then I asked her "what about the new guy?" and she said "oh he's ok, just promise me no flirting". I was so shookt cause like I thought to myself what a change of heart. At first she wasn't open about us being friends and then suddenly a few days after she'd go knocking on my world again saying she'd still want to keep in touch with me. I'm so confused I don't understand what she really wants from me. Does she genuinely want to be my friend? Or just wants someone to be there for her when she's bored and got nothing to do? Or does she still have feelings for me? (she admitted she liked me way back when we were still talking every day and we said ilys and all the cheesy stuffs)

Online chats creep me out. Do you actually know if this is a girl? She enjoys the company? What company? Maybe you should spend some time away from the electronics and maybe find a way to meet someone you can actually be with in person.

She was either a dude.. or going to rip you off. Definitely not what you though. And you never met her, you were just infatuated with the idea of what she was presenting, and what you wanted her to be, that's not love. Meet someone local and in person. Save yourself a lot of future grief.

Quite the cyber drama you have built. You obviously know very little about her life, and that's the problem with these distance, online interactions. That's all they are or can be, and everything else is built around people filling in the blanks with their own fancies and assumptions.

Take her at her word and just leave it at cyber buddies, without all the extra drama. If you cannot, then you are just to emotionally invested in an online persona. What if she is just a confused nut? Or hiding something important? Who knows what the truth is, or why she does what she does, and you aren't there to find out.

Sorry guy you at least need to back up and get some objectivity back. This will never work, not even as friends. Not what you wanted to hear I know, but think about what you ask of strangers who have no clue who you are talking about. That's a recipe for even more confusing drama. Maybe you both are addicted to your computer world. Doesn't sound too healthy does it?