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    Muffin22 Posts: 16, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 3, 2008, 09:15 PM
    What Does It Measn Really If He Says He does not know how to answer me about his feel
    I and a guy friend of mine have been friends for a few months now. We talk on the phone and on line and also we see each other some. I really feel he likes me for more than a friend, based mainly on his actions but am not sure. He has told me a time or two he missed me and that he thinks of me often, that he is attracted to me. He is extremely nervous around me, and when he went out of town once he emailed and said he wish that I was there, he is always sending me off line notes saying things like Big hugs, etc... He and I both do have very weird schedules right now, so we don't get to see each other very often. I asked him about two weeks ago did he think he could be emotionally available to me, and he got quiet at first then he said he did not know how to answer that then he said he had to go. We were chatting. I have not brought it up anymore. He has always been very respectful to me and told me that he never wants to disrespect me. He knows my boundaries, that I have morals, standards, etc... But once recently I did mention that I wanted to be more than friends and he said he had been looking for a lover, and since then we have not talked about it anymore. All we have ever done is hug and snuggle a little which is how I want it right now, but I just want to know his true feelings for me. When I was in the hospital not long ago he seemed very concerned and worried about me, and always asks about my health issues if I am sick, etc? I need to know what you think and about him and also what advice you give to me about finding out his feelings without pressuring him?
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    Jul 3, 2008, 10:16 PM
    Sounds like you should just enjoy the moment and not push him for answers and see where it goes. It sounds like he likes you but you wanting to discuss feelings could back fire where he doesn't want to see you.
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    Jul 4, 2008, 08:26 AM
    Be patient, and keep contact, as its way to early to talk about feelings as his are obviously developing, as are yours, but he is not comfortable as yet to even know his, or let his guard down. Talk and communicate, have some fun getting to know each other slowly, and above all DON'T PUSH at this time. What's your hurry?

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