What does it mean when a man says this?

Herzdieb · Jul 12, 2009, 06:49 PM

Originally Posted by cleaninglady81

Yes it mean he likes you and wants to spend more time with you

^_^ I hope he asks me to hang out again soon!

Herzdieb · Jul 12, 2009, 10:12 PM

I tried talking to him on messenger today. He didn't respond. I'm invisible when I sign into messenger, so whenever I went from 'available' to 'offline,' I noticed he automatically got offline, too.

I talked to him on the phone the day after I wrote I like him because of the movies and friends were going... he couldn't go but told me to call next time I'm available. I asked him to call me and he said okay that's fine.

I feel like I messed up and he's avoiding me!! :/

Torrid13 · Jul 13, 2009, 04:09 PM

Originally Posted by Herzdieb

i tried talking to him on messenger today. he didnt respond. im invisible when i sign into messenger, so whenever i went from 'available' to 'offline,' i noticed he automatically got offline, too.

i talked to him on the phone the day after i wrote i like him because of the movies and friends were going....he couldnt go but told me to call next time im available. i asked him to call me and he said okay thats fine.

i feel like i messed up and hes avoiding me!!! :/

He might be shy and not know what to do once you told him you like him and trying to figure out the best way to ask you out. Or, he might not like you. It's very hard to say, especially since he seemed to be interested. Men can be confusing creatures sometimes.

I think the best thing you can do right now is just give him space. Don't try to talk to him for a few days, and see what happens. If he starts talking to you first, I think this is a good sign. If he doesn't... then I think you have your answer. Don't panic just yet, okay? He just might be busy...

>.>

Herzdieb · Jul 13, 2009, 06:30 PM

Originally Posted by Torrid13

He might be shy and not know what to do once you told him you like him and trying to figure out the best way to ask you out. Or, he might not like you. It's very hard to say, especially since he seemed to be interested. Men can be confusing creatures sometimes.

I think the best thing you can do right now is just give him space. Don't try to talk to him for a few days, and see what happens. If he starts talking to you first, I think this is a good sign. If he doesn't...then I think you have your answer. Don't panic just yet, okay? He just might be busy...

>.>

Well I didn't follow your advice I wrote him on messenger again and he wasn't answering so I kept typing stuff. I guess I knew I was being stupid but I kept going. After a while he answered and said he didn't hear the alert and told me what I typed was like reading a book. He then said, 'my bad girl!'

What does that mean I know he was saying it in a playful way but he said MY bad girl so does that mean he still likes me or something? I joked with him saying I thought he was ignoring me but he said 'nah I wouldn't ignore you' and invited me to watch movies with his friends and some of my friends on Saturday night.

I don't feel as stupid as I did but that whole 'my bad girl' thang has really made me curious!!

Torrid13 · Jul 13, 2009, 07:18 PM

Then what are you worried about? He told you he wouldn't ignore you, he invited you to watch some movies, and he called you his "bad girl." Sounds like a win-win to me. I don't know exactly what he meant by "my bad girl," but it can't be NEGATIVE, now can it? Don't analyze EVERY SINGLE THING he says. You'll just start to feel self-conscious and insecure. I am guilty of this overanalyzing stuff, and it's a bad habit to break. Why not start now and just enjoy the ride? :)

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