This guy my friend has been seeing for about 7 monthes brought to his attention one day that she wanted them to start dating, he said he agreed but wasn't ready for that right now. So they stopped talkn except for a few hi's and bye's. Then he contacted her after a month and they started talking again and he said that he liked her a lot but still wasn't ready for the relationship.
I should also mention that he told her first that he didn't want her just for sex, and that in fact it was her who was always initating it.

I told her that he's confused, and probably went through a bad relationship previously and that's why he is like that, or mayb he is just commitment phobe.
Pleasee Helpp! :)