Hi, My boyfriend and I have been dating for 16 months, and I believe we love each other madly.. But.. Lately we have been getting into more arguments.. the most came the other day.. he told me that he feels like he can't ever understand me and that sometimes when we hang out its too stressful to do and that at that point he doesn't even care for my emotions. Yeahh I am a super emotional person, but I have reasons for it.. I don't freak out about a lot honeslty.. he just takes what I say wayy too much to his own heart and blows it up, if I say that to him he says whatever you're the one being emotional and ****. Its so confusing to me because I know for a fact I am not being emotional but him blaming me just completely pisses me off and shuts me down. Anyway though also the other day he had told me he needed to do some "soul searching".. Why? He told me that we hang out way too much and that its overwhelming.. that we need to hang out less so he can find himself.. I don't know what to do.. What do you think?

Give him what he asks for, less time together so he can find himself. I don't know if that will solve the communications problem between you, but that's what he wants.

Sounds like. He wants to be with someone else so leave him alone and give him some. Space.. dont call him let him call u when he's ready to talk

I think that you should take a break and then see how it works out.